yes than you all!

can i get the opinion of gemini men please!

By the way Scully21, he mentioned that he found me too young/immature after all and that he was wrong for thinking i wouldn't act my age which is 21. But i can assure anyone i am must mature for my age and have acted older than i ever was at any age. I found him to be the immature one for bringing a conflict onto our dating relationship. Do you think the age difference could have been it from the beginning?

Hahaha thanks, in case i came off self centered im not. It was just a plus for me. I competly agree with the too full on before him meeting me. I was a big scared at first for how fast he was taking things but its always nice to be felt needed! Why do you say he is a player?

Hey everyone i need some help trying to figure this one out. I am a Cancer woman who met a Gemini man on eHarmony and not till after a month of talking on the phone and exchanging emails did we meet. He was already talking about marrying me and having me move in with him because of my current situation living with an ex boyfriend who i fought with almost daily! I love traveling and he was ready to buy us plane tickets! It seems too good to be true but he was just the sweetest man over the phone and would make time for me everyday with his super busy schedule. I was impressed because ive heard that Gemini men like their space, he didnt seem like he wanted any space away from me. He would text me first thing when he would wake up and call me every night before he laid down to sleep. I originally wanted to wait longer to meet because us Cancer woman are a bit insecure and it takes us longer to trust a man. But he insisted that nothing was going to change. Once we met i still felt very attractive to him and one of the bigger reasons was because he is financially secure and as a cancer woman i need to feel secure and protected. He talked about having children and making me his wife already! I started staying at his place on the first week we started hanging out, he insisted. But all of a sudden from one day to the next within the first week of things going smoothly ( it seemed that way to me) he asked me to stay at my own place and he wanted time to think, things just "didnt feel the same way". I was confused and sad. Three days went by before i lost it and started texting him and he wasnt calling or texting back... then he finally texted me and said that this BS is too much and a turn off. He was going to contact me that day but got held up doing other things and that he was going to make it work but he dosnt know what to tell me know. The next day i apologized to him and he said to just forget him..anyways i asked to stay friends and he said fine but we need time away from each other. SO MY QUESTION IS: should i keep doing my thing and expect him to come running back? should i try talking to him first in a couple of weeks or have him reach out to me first? after all he was the one that claimed he had fallen in love with me first, just seems very strange that all of a sudden he would just change his mind so quickly. Im 21 and he is 25.