I didn't mean to put that in an attacking way.. Sorry if you read it like that. Im just soooo confused over this guy. I REALLY like him and.. sigh
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Cancer first meeting
OK so.. Anyone whose read my last post should know the situation between me and Mr. Cancer.. We talk on and off online. I'm super attracted to him.. And we finally met a couple days ago (I know him through mutual friends - He isn't a complete stranger). We were in a public place and it was pretty weird.. I mean.. He's a great guy, I'm completely smitten. But he was kind of indecisive.. And kept looking at me and when I looked back.. He looked away. I got the feeling that I wasn't attractive.. Because he kept drifting away into his own thoughts.. And wandering off to different stores and stuff (We were in a mall).. Basically throughout the time together.. I was trying to figure him out.. I could barely look at him because he'd look away. He just seemed disinterested in me.. So moving along.. We get into the car and are having a pretty nice conversation, I drop him off and he asks if I could call to make sure I got in ok.. I called.. No answer. Sent him a comment online. No response. I've been feeling pretty bummed out about the whole thing and keep replaying it in my head. I just don't understand. Keep in mind he has only seen pictures of me..(Which are a little photo shopped.. Just to remove blotches) And I'm wondering if I didn't live up to the potential of my pictures or if I wasn't dressed well enough.. Idk.. But its killing me..
I'm hopelessly infatuated and "In Like" with a Cancer Man I have never met. Sounds bizarre, I know. We know each other through mutual friends and talk often online - Well used to. It started out that we would talk almost everyday. Then circumstances changed and now we don't talk as often. He has always flirted with me very very subtly and sweetly. And now it seems as if he's a little harsh. He teases me in ways that are funny to him but not so much to me. I try to brush it off but it makes me believe that he doesn't like me. There are times when we are both online and he doesn't even contact me.. And it bugs me because I think about him CONSTANTLY. I know how slow they like to take things and I respect that.. I learned after giving him my number and having him NEVER call (but blame it on the fact that he lost the paper he wrote it down on.. right) that they are very shy. Likewise me being a Capricorn.. I'm not used to making first moves or initiating communication. I don't know if I should pursue him, lay off him, chase him.. or what. I'm usually the type to lay low and be chased but it doesn't seem like this man understands my program.. Very soon we will be living within minutes from one another and I am anxious to see where our -ship is headed. At times he seems just as anxious (Says he can't wait.. Always asking if I'm still coming) but other times he doesn't acknowledge me. I guess I'm curious on the Cancer/Capricorn relationship... Or any of your experiences with the Cancer man. Do they like to be pursued/chased? Should I keep my cool exterior even though I'm burning with passion inside? Should I contact him when he fails to contact me? Also, how do they initially respond and go about pursuing the person they like? I'm very intuitive and something inside me tells me that we are compatible and ill end up together.. But I don't want to rush or over analyze anything.
Thanks, The Cappy Girl.