Thank you for your reply blmoon! Things have gone from bad to worse with my Pisces; I tried to reach out to him and tell him I care and miss him but he hasn't replied at all. I'm at a loss of what to do and I'm growing more depressed as time goes on. I know I should move on since he clearly seems to have done so already but my heart won't allow it. Oddly enough, I'm grateful I met him. He taught me that I could love someone so suddenly and without restraint. So there's that I suppose.

Blessings!

My own birthday (for reference) is July 19, 1988. Thanks again!

Hi everyone,

I'm very confused and would be eternally grateful if someone would be so kind as to grant me a reading. I met a wonderful Pisces man ( birthday: March 2, 1980) online and hit it off immediately. Even though I initiated contact, he would call me everyday and we had wonderful conversations. About two weeks into the courtship, he started to call me less and less. I spoke to him about it, and he promised he'd be more consistent. Things got better for a couple days,and then went back to limited contact. We only saw each other a total of 3 times during a two month span, I may add. About a week ago, I wrote him a long letter explaining why I couldn't continue to contact someone who was so inconsistent because it hurts too much. He tried to contact me once, and now he hasn't contacted me since.

I feel for him much too quickly, and now I can't get over him. I was wondering if there's any chance at all. I kept getting the feeling that he was scared to rush in (he's had a lot of bad relationships) and even now, I still feel like he is the one. I just couldn't keep chasing him; I needed to maintain some degree of self-respect.

Thank you for any advice you could give. I feel very lost and sad right now.

Thanks again Captain! I'm just so confused by his sudden withdrawal. I'm going to try to open myself and stop dwelling on him and just let him come to me when he is ready. This is what I got from the card reading...would you recommend anything else? Thanks again for all of your help, blessings to you!

Captain,

I'm not sure if you're still offering this reading, but I could definitely use your insight. I met a Pisces man who really swept me off my feet. He started out very interested, but as things progressed and I started showing him more and more of me, he withdrew and now he's not answering my calls. I wrote him a message explaining my feelings, which he has not replied to. Can you give me some insight as to what is happening, or where this is headed? If it isn't going anywhere, I'd rather move on and stop all contact, even though I have very strong feelings for him.

Thank you so much, and many blessings to you!

Hi Snowball,

No worries, I didn't take it as you being harsh or mean! There were a couple things I should've clarified (for example, after I gave him my number, HE was the one doing the chasing...I never once called or texted him first except when he withdrew, and even then it was ONE call and ONE text a day for a period of two days before a week of non-communication and the final text) but the gist is true. He knew I cared for him more than he cared for me, and he took advantage.

About 20 minutes after I sent my "goodbye" text (which really, was just me telling him that I was hurt and I would've maintained a lot more respect for him if he had just told me he wanted a friends with benefits relationship), he assured me that wasn't it, he was just confused. The only reason I texted him all that was for my own benefit, to get it off my chest once and for all. When he wrote back, I texted him I didn't need excuses when his actions did all the explaining. I haven't spoken to him since (about three weeks)...no calls or texts. It hurts when I look at my phone and he hasn't called, but like you said, he can be a creep with someone else.

The only problem is I can't get him out of my head. I admittedly check his facebook sometimes...but I know it's wrong so I've banned myself from doing it these past couple days. I just feel broken hearted, he told me that I felt right to him...that he was just taking it slow but that he wanted more from us. And then he disappeared. I really wish I had made up the whole relationship in my head, I'd probably be over it by now. But he was so sincere, so gallant...I don't know if I could ever trust again. Yes, I only knew him for a month...but it felt like I had known him my whole life, and he seemingly reciprocated the feeling.

It gets a little better every day though :). I'm sure I'll be there soon...I apologize if I sound defensive! Honestly, I just felt I should expand a little more as my earlier comment sounded like I was delusional haha. Thank you for your advice...I love this forum, everyone is helpful! Blessings!

Mardeep,

Thank you so much for your advice! I was putting myself together again for a couple days, as sad and pathetic as it sounds, I was devastated by the whole situation. I invested too much in too short a time period, and it backfired in my face. It was awful...

I'm almost 100% convinced he switched me out for another woman; it's been 2 weeks since I last contacted him and told him my feelings (I kind of let my angry side explode a bit...but I kept it clean and straight to the facts) and he hasn't contacted me at all. His answers were so vague with me ("I'm not keeping you held up") that he made me feel like such an idiot for making me think he liked me, while at the same time telling me he didn't toy with my feelings ("I didn't play you or anything. I'm just having a difficult time right now"). However, he's been out with this girl most weekends since our last conversation, so I can't keep hope that he still has (or even had) feelings for me. Who just disappears like that?

I feel like I was just a plaything for him...and at this point I'm not even sure of what I would say if he were to contact me. It's all a mind game and it's definitely not what I signed up for, but I can't seem to stop thinking of him, despite attempts to get myself out there and date around again.

Thank you for letting me vent. I really wish I was brave and courageous enough to employ your advice. I'm terrified that I'll see him and he'll just...push me aside. It hurts so much...but knowing that there's a community like this and people like you that are willing to offer support is amazing! Thanks again! Blessings!

Thank you all for the warm welcome! I feel a lot better reading your comments and trying to work through this with others! I'm sure my friends are sick of hearing it by now lol.

Jen, you're so right. I knew he was being selfish; after all, who just stops calling someone they were supposedly "close" to? He didn't have any consideration for my feelings, even after all I did was have consideration for his. I supposed I'm still hung up on him because he was so perfect that first month; I'll drive by places we used to go and get a knot in my throat. No man has ever made me feel so...wanted. He treated me like a princess, and even when we'd split the cost of a date (completely MY idea, by the way. I feel weird not contributing at least a bit), he still made me feel special and like he genuinely wanted to be with me. Even after the first time we were intimate and I closed into my shell for a bit to deal with my emotions, he made sure he was there for me, to talk to me, and about any emotions I was experiencing. It seemed perfect, but he was just playing "the game" I guess.

What's helping my resolve is the fact that I saw him with another woman this weekend at a nightclub. True, it could just be a friend because I didn't see any hand holding or what have you, but it still hurt since he was supposedly so upset that he couldn't even talk to me. My instinct tells me he's dating her, but I don't know for sure. It's usually right though, so I'm going to let this go and if he contacts me, I don't even think I'll answer this time around. I'm so hurt.

I don't understand why he couldn't just be honest, but I guess it's a Virgo thing. I hope we all make it out of this semi-sane lol!

Thank you all for the warm welcome! I feel a lot better reading your comments and trying to work through this with others! I'm sure my friends are sick of hearing it by now lol.

Jen, you're so right. I knew he was being selfish; after all, who just stops calling someone they were supposedly "close" to? He didn't have any consideration for my feelings, even after all I did was have consideration for his. I supposed I'm still hung up on him because he was so perfect that first month; I'll drive by places we used to go and get a knot in my throat. No man has ever made me feel so...wanted. He treated me like a princess, and even when we'd split the cost of a date (completely MY idea, by the way. I feel weird not contributing at least a bit), he still made me feel special and like he genuinely wanted to be with me. Even after the first time we were intimate and I closed into my shell for a bit to deal with my emotions, he made sure he was there for me, to talk to me, and about any emotions I was experiencing. It seemed perfect, but he was just playing "the game" I guess.

What's helping my resolve is the fact that I saw him with another woman this weekend at a nightclub. True, it could just be a friend because I didn't see any hand holding or what have you, but it still hurt since he was supposedly so upset that he couldn't even talk to me. My instinct tells me he's dating her, but I don't know for sure. It's usually right though, so I'm going to let this go and if he contacts me, I don't even think I'll answer this time around. I'm so hurt.

I don't understand why he couldn't just be honest, but I guess it's a Virgo thing. I hope we all make it out of this semi-sane lol!

Thank you all for the warm welcome! I feel a lot better reading your comments and trying to work through this with others! I'm sure my friends are sick of hearing it by now lol.

Jen, you're so right. I knew he was being selfish; after all, who just stops calling someone they were supposedly "close" to? He didn't have any consideration for my feelings, even after all I did was have consideration for his. I supposed I'm still hung up on him because he was so perfect that first month; I'll drive by places we used to go and get a knot in my throat. No man has ever made me feel so...wanted. He treated me like a princess, and even when we'd split the cost of a date (completely MY idea, by the way. I feel weird not contributing at least a bit), he still made me feel special and like he genuinely wanted to be with me. Even after the first time we were intimate and I closed into my shell for a bit to deal with my emotions, he made sure he was there for me, to talk to me, and about any emotions I was experiencing. It seemed perfect, but he was just playing "the game" I guess.

What's helping my resolve is the fact that I saw him with another woman this weekend at a nightclub. True, it could just be a friend because I didn't see any hand holding or what have you, but it still hurt since he was supposedly so upset that he couldn't even talk to me. My instinct tells me he's dating her, but I don't know for sure. It's usually right though, so I'm going to let this go and if he contacts me, I don't even think I'll answer this time around. I'm so hurt.

I don't understand why he couldn't just be honest, but I guess it's a Virgo thing. I hope we all make it out of this semi-sane lol!