The game of "All I do is cause pain" is something all healers get to come across one or more times in their life. It stirs itself up in the healer when the other person can't have the communication that the healer is sharing. The healer then tries to "read" what the other person is feeling which is pain due to the button the healer has pushed.
Since we've grown up in a society that is mostly unconcious instead of the person receiving the communication looking within to see what they may want to take a look at they blame the healer for the communication. After years of this occuring it builds quite the big backlog of the feeling energy and the healer walks around with the energy of blame, shame and guilt.
Forgive yourself, others and let go of the energy that holds you.
Wishing you peace and freedom in the New Year.