Thank you for replying. He is actually pretty open regarding personal matters. I've asked him some personal things, after asking if it was okay to do so and he's always given me an answer. I get the feeling too, that he likes me as much as I like him. I just get freaked out by feelings-ive been single for four years now by choice and he's the first person to make me feel like I dont want to live in solitude with a hot pool boy! I just don't want to put myself out there and get shut down.
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RE: Help me figure out a virgo man
Help me figure out a virgo man
Hello all, this is my first post. I'll try to keep this as short as possible. Im a cancerian girl and ive been interested in a virgo man for about 4-5 months now. We originally met at work, the first day we worked together we totally hit it off. After that, everytime we worked together we talked about anything from politics and religion and relationships to bad chuck norris movies and how I can and he cant cook. We've agreed on 99% of everything we've talked about. After working together a couple weeks I was thinking about quitting and mentioned I would miss talking to him. He responded that we could do something about that and that it's not often in life that we meet someone whos on the same page as you and we shouldn't let it go to waste. I was caught completely off guard and didnt respond, except to say that he should probably leave so he wouldnt get in trouble for staying late. He said he was trying to be nice and not just leave me but I told him I'd be okay and Id find him on fb and add him later. I realised I sucked for that after the fact, so the next day I gave him my number and he immediately texted me his. When I needed a package shipped but it couldnt go to my apt he offered and had it shipped to his house. I asked him why he was so nice and he told me he's only nice to people he likes. I baked for him a couple times and he always talked about how awesome it was and told other people about it. One night, after mentioning that I flirt with him shamelessly he couldnt sit still the rest of the night and at one point, when talking about being straight forward about things he told me he's usually in tune but he just cant pick up on hints when someone likes him-even though I know he can because we've talked about past relationships. The problem is, he rarely returns my texts. I told him once via text I was interested, but he didn't respond and we both acted like nothing happened when we saw eachother. He mentioned once liking to push his limits, and that other girls in his past always said he was really dificult' this happened after I mentioned feeling like he was being difficult. I quit a few weeks ago and told him I'd be sad if I never heard from him again, he said he was sure we could do something, but I havent heard from him yet.
I apologize for the rediculously long post. Any advice is appreciated
Also, he told me a while ago that he's really laid back in the beginning when it comes to relationships and that he's a private person so I've tried to be as relaxed about all this as possible. I'm a pretty outgoing person who's pretty much happy all the time so I have to remember to be a little less intense sometimes. He's also mentioned a few times how introverted he tends to be, even though around me he's not at all. And, he would alwasy mention after doing somethine "weird" or funny how he likes that I don't judge him for anything and he can be himself. We talked once about a girl that had liked him but was too in his face for his liking and he mentioned being willing to give almost anyone a "chance" so I don't understand why we haven't done anything yet.