I have a similar problem involving a husband of 22 years who left me 10 years ago. I got a great deal of help from the comments here. Ten years is a long time and we will cross paths because our daughter will have a baby in April. I just can't seem to get over the whole thing. I have read books but haven't been able to FULLY forgive him. I don't want to ever see him again, yet I do. I imagine scenarios where his new wife dies and he asks to return to the house. Would I let him? Of course I would. I feel like I am over the pain but not over the love and don't know what to do with it because it is a waste of time. Akkkk!
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