Thank you First Mann! I do understand what you have said regarding the past, present and future. I believe everything happens for a reason. I have really been focusing on myself and trying to understand myself and what it is I want from the next man who comes into my life. The past you write I had no control over the situation and it was never suppose to work out... really? I feel like I did have control as I am the one that said goodbuy because I could no longer deal with what was going on between us. I always try to take away a lesson from the things in my life that didn't work out. I do believe that you have to like and love yourself in order for that to come into your life. Love the mantra you shared and will start saying it always. Thank you again for your time and have a great evening!

Hello FirstMann... I was in and out of a relationship all last year. I finally said enough the end of 2011 with this gentleman (9/30/53). It was tough as we had so much in common and had a good time together. I could no longer take the backseat to his ex-girlfriend that he remained in close contact with and would drop everything for her everytime she called. He and I run into each other once in a while as we do have a few of the same friends and attend some of the same events around town. It's been a little painful as I see him out with someone new and wonder why two people that had so much in common and got along so well couldnt work. He reminds every once in a while how much he cares and would do anything for me... Really? I always thought we would end up back together once he realized the ex-girlfriend wasn't coming back. My feelings were deeply hurt by this guy. I opened myself up to him after a long time of being closed off. Now I feel closed off again, but don't want to be. I truly want to meet someone who appreciates me and will live me. I want to give that in return to someone. I'm feeling like its never going to happen... Although I know it will when the timing is right!

Thanks for your time for reaching outto me!

Hello... I would appreciate a reading regarding my love life and/or a relationship. What do you see if anything and when. My date of birth is 4/8/59.

I look forward to hearing from you... much love and blessings to you!

Hi Astra,

Hope all is going well and you are enjoying your summer so far! I have read and re-read your readings/posts above regarding Robert and Louie. I have since run into both of them. Robert and I didn't say a word to each other. Although it seemed Robert had something on his mind and wanted to say something. I didn't give him a chance. I just kept moving in the other direction. Louie and I also did not say a word to each other. I felt Louie looking at me and caught him looking at me out of the corner of his eye a couple.of times. I have also gone out on a date with a different gentleman and have realized that I might be ready to date someone new. Robert... whatever. Louie I can't seem to shake. What is up with that? How do I put Louie behind me and move forward? Right when I think I am making progress and moving forward leaving Louie behind he seems to appear. What do you see... what do the card say?

Thank you. I truly appreciate your guidance.

Good evening AstraAngel... thought I would give you an update on the Robert 7/17/58 and myself 4/8/59. It was very short lived. The relationship/friendship has ended abruptly. I'm okay... I could feel something was up with him as he was pulling away. Not that we saw each other a lot anyways. His job is crazy busy and takes up a lot of his time. He is trying to find a balance between work and personal time. He said he doesn't have the time to devote to a relationship and disappeared. This is the same disappearing act he pulled the last time we dated back in Oct/Nov 2011.

I'm beginning to think I am just meant to be alone. Between Louie 9/30/53 and Robert 7/17/58 dating me 4/8/59 and neither one working out. The two guys out of a few guys I have gone out with in the past year and thinking surely something will develop and nothing did with either one. I'm beginning to question my judgement in men also.

What do you see in the cards Astra. Am I going to find true love ?

Thank you again as always for your time to do a reading !

Good morning Astra... I agree with you! Robert and I seem to be moving in a very positive direction. Louie I feel gave me the birthday gift and apology for his actions in the past towards me to clear his own conscious and make himself feel better. There was no reason for either thing from him as we have not spoken since late last year. I have listened and paid attention to Louie's words and actions for quite sometime and have come to realize it is all about Louie. He is a very charming guy, but only to benefit himself, at least that's how he makes me feel! I hope Louie finally stays away and Robert and I continue to move forward in the manner we are.

Any other words of wisdom you could share would be fantastic as I always enjoy your guidance!!!

Hii AstraAngel... you mentioned a pendulum test/reading in your last message to me. Could you please tell me what it says?

Thank you!

Thank you Astra... Yes, I would love to know the outcome of the Pendulum test! Thank you!

Hi AstraAngel and thank you for your reading and guidance. Things are moving slowly along with Robert. When we are spending time together it's perfect and we get along great. But then a day or two will go by before I hear from him and he seems to be going a hundred miles an hour in every direction. I don't quite understand him and how he plans to make time for a relationship he says he wants when he's involved in so many different things. What's going on?

Then there's Louie who for some reason keeps pulling at my heartstrings! Haven't spoke with him since before Christmas. Saw him yesterday at a mutual friend birthday. He had a birthday present for me (mine was in April). He etched me a dragonfly and my name on a beer mug and bought me a sweatshirt that he knew I would love. Both items are very meaningful and thoughtful. Then today he called me to apologize for the way he treated me in the past. He said he is dating someone, but told me they have nothing in common. He said its different. He said him and I have so much in common. I said then why aren't we trying to make it work. He said he didn't think I would want to talk to him ever again. I don't understand him. Why would he get me a gift, apologize and tell me about the new gal he is dating. What does he want from me? To clear his conscious, to make himself feel better... What? Louie's birthday is 9/30/53... Mine is 4/8/59... What is going on with us?

Please help me to understand both these men... Am I better off alone without either one?

Thank you again for your time and energy! xo

Sorry Astra... Roberts actual birthday is 7/17/58 and mine is 4/8/59 ... Thank you!!!