Kindly check out this birthday of mine~~3th Nov, 1954
Your advices will be truly appreciate..thanks
I'm getting lots of mixed feeling regarding a male friend of mine, we knew each other for 6 years and there were times when he showers me with tons of caring attitude then for reason unknown he ignored all my recent email. As Christmas is nearing I was planning to send him an email greeting message but was afraid that it will fall on deaf ears like those recent mails. He been getting into lots of my thought lately not to mention in my dreams too; I just can't figure out whether he genuinely take me as his friend or those ' Hello & Goodbye' friends.
What's puzzling me is..why am I receiving all this hot & cold treatment, is he trying to keep the distant or is there others reason. I knew he does cared for me from those of his past mails but why is it so hard for him to openly accept me as his personal friend?
I've been thinking on moving on, just that something inside my mind keep telling me to be patience with him for a while. Its truly confusing when he failed to reply upon receiving 8 email from me, doesn't he think is impolite to treat a friend this way, after all I done all this year; helping him out on several occasion regarding his personal things & not to mention helping a sick friend of his to obtain the best Cancer treatment this couple of years. What more must I do to prove to him that I'm sincere, all I want from him is to appreciate this friendship of ours...why's it so hard?
Your advice will be most helpful, by the way my DOB is 3Nov 54 while his is 21Oct 70. Your help will be much appreciated..thanks & have a wonderful weekend.
I wish to know whether there's any chances of developing a lasting, caring & heart warming friendship with this friend of mine; since there's such a big gap in our age. I always wonder, if he's my soul-mate. Those that does not involve marriage kind of soul-mate but rather stick together through thick or thin..please advice.
My DOB is 3rd Nov 54 & his DOB is 21st Oct 70.
Thanks for your help & have a nice weekend.
Firstly thanks for your reply..but there are certain things that I failed to understand and hope you can specify in more details.
I didn’t quite get your meaning, when you said it be impossible for us to become close personal friend. Do you mean that he’s reluctant to accept me as his friend? What puzzling me is, he told a few of my close friends that we knew each other for sometimes and he admired me in certain ways. I’m not exaggerating when I told you that he showers me with very special attentions whenever we met; many of my ladies friend felt that he treat me like a queen in the presence of his family, co-worker & personal friends.
You said that I’m experiencing love in a spiritual way, original and alive; does this apply to him too? Its not that I wish for a fling or anything, I only wish to treat him like a son, someone whom he can ask for guidance in times of need and to pamper him with tender care when he’s feeling low.
We used to exchange emails couple of months back, but after his recent b/day in Oct. he suddenly stop replying my mails. Knowing well that he worked 24/7, I dare not demand any explanations from him but kept mailing him every once a week. I wonder if I done anything to frighten him away. It hurts me just by thinking that after six long years our friendship end in this manner and we won’t be seeing each other anymore. I whole heartily adored & treasure him above anyone else.
He'll be throwing a party during the Chinese New Year on Feb, will it be wise for me to attend? Or do you think I shall just forget about him & move on with my life? Please help me out regarding this issue; your advices will be much appreciated.
Hi hans, I met a Libra man few year back & instantly took a liking to him, I make it a point to attend his B/day gathering every year. After these few years I can't get him out of my mind & wish to know if he shared the same feeling too.He always treat me differently from others, all I wish is to become a very close personal friend of him, do you think it be possible. By the way he's born on 21th Oct 70 while I'm born on 3rd Nov.54.
I always get very nervous beside acting silly whenever he's around & avoid looking into his eyes, why do I behave such stupid manner? I get upset when he fail to respond to mail recently, what has gotten over me? Please advice.