Something that I have recently learned and fully understand about trust, is that you cannot fullly trust someone else until you trust yourself. We women have a fantastic sense of intuition, but do we really trust it? Do you trust yourselves and your choices? Do you accept yourself and love yourself as you are? If you don't love yourself JUST AS YOU ARE, WHO YOU ARE, you will find that the trust level of yourself falters. Once you see that you are a powerful woman when you have full self-acceptance, you can take back the control of your life, yourself, and your choices. You have given him your power and you are questioning yourself. Please recognize that you always deserve the best, deserve to be treated the best and with respect. Commanding (not demanding) that will put you back in your own power. What he's saying and doing is disrespecful and controlling. Is that what you want? What's behind his words and actions is all about HIM. You are responsible for you and your feelings, but don't take responsibility for his -- you can't fix him. Be happy with yourself first and your life will open to you -- right before your eyes!