Dearest Auntie - You are REALLY REALLY on target. I know this is subject that we will have to approach and come to a decision together. I am happy tohear that this will most likely turn out to be a successful union. Funny thing - my daughter has suggested buying a home that suits both of us which would make her ever so happy. I am dealing with newly diagnosed diabetes type 2 so learning a new way to eat, drink, sleep. exercise and a real lifestyle change with the injections, meds, etc. This is what has "made me stand still" I think. I know my man is good enough and honorable in his intentions - we dated 20 + years ago and reunited in 1996, been togehter ever since (even through the bag of tricks he put me through to test my sincerity (he is a Capricorn - so passionate, realist and very confident) - he is simply "a man's man" and I am so lucky to have his love and respect. Thank you for your reading and insight - it time for me to get moving on this pretty soon !!!! I'll keep you posted on your accuracy and insights.

You are very talented - please take care of your blessings - they are your gift and thank youfor sharing that with all os us! Take Good Care, Blessedlioness

Auntie Buck -

What a great opp you've given us all. I am relatively new to this site, bit saw your offer and am curious. It's been years since my last reading and would love it if youwould do one for me now.

I am # 10 on your second list, I think?!?!?

My question: What does the future hold for me and my guy regarding living arrangements and the future of our romance?

We are living apart now as I am taking this time to be with my daughter as she goes through college. My man is concerned that we may not get to live together for a long time. Neither of us wants to give up our houses. He inherited his, and I am buying our home. I love to be in both places - please help me untie my knots? I do now that I will not live with him until marriage - been there-done that-doesn't work... Thank you so much for listening. I look forward to your reading. Much love out to the cosmos - staying positive in these times isn't always easy -

God Bless and Take Care. blessedlioness

Auntie Buck -

What a great opp you've given us all. I am relatively new to this site, bit saw your offer and am curious. It's been years since my last reading and would love it if youwould do one for me now.

I am # 10 on your second list, I think?!?!?

My question: What does the future hold for me and my guy regarding living arrangements and the future of our romance?

We are living apart now as I am taking this time to be with my daughter as she goes through college. My man is concerned that we may not get to live together for a long time. Neither of us wants to give up our houses. He inherited his, and I am buying our home. I love to be in both places - please help me untie my knots? I do now that I will not live with him until marriage - been there-done that-doesn't work... Thank you so much for listening. I look forward to your reading. Much love out to the cosmos - staying positive in these times isn't always easy -

God Bless and Take Care. blessedlioness

Hey All - I'm a Leo woman and I am shy at first with men (and women) especially when I first meet them. Have you guys been dating in person, or are you just getting warmed up to the idea? The suggestion above that when you talk with her, you tell her what wonderful things you see in her - that always makes me melt to think that a man has spent that much time thinking of me. A Lioness definitely Wants a MAN over a mouse, so also share with her your values and code of honor as a gentleman. We love bad boys with big hearts, someone who is as masculine as we are feminine - you know? When she trusts you (just like a pet cat), she will give you all of her heart. When you break that trust, everything will disappear, including your loving "kitty-kat" - just like she was never there. So May Good fortune smile on you! God Bless

When you begin setting your boundaries - he will respect you for standing up for yourself.

I've spent the 12 years with my Cappy, and he's pulled every cat out of the bag to test my honor and respect for my own values and morales. I got the biggest positive response from him when he asked me what I wanted from our relaitionship, and I simply explained that all I wanted was for him to be himself. Cappy's need a lot of rope sometimes to enjoy some time alone as they are very self sufficient and to bound that quality would be smothering your Cappy, and away he would go. If you want your Cappy to change, you'll have to integrate into your dating an opporunity (time) for him to make that change because you grew, and he will step up to your new boundaries as he's also very competitive.

I've learned with my Cappy that since ladies are the "managers" of the relationship, we can use our Cappy's best traits to guide them along. Oh, and also build him up with praise for his constructive ideas - let him be your hero but tell him that he is - Cappy's do have pretty big egos that need feeding and nuturing just like everyone. He will notice your change and "react" to your "action". Hope this works for you. If you decide to really be with your Cappy, then just like any relationship, it requires maintenace to remain healthy. Things flow smoother between you when each partner can use the other's good traits to get things done (together as a team). This would endear anyone to you when you are in control but no one can tell (LOL!)

Once you decide on a Cappy be prepared to spend some time waiting for him to get serious with one person. My Cappy was single for 30 years and had lots of "fun" with women who also didn't want to/or couldn't have an exclusive relationship. If they ever mentioned anything to him about making it serious he would step out of their lives and go to the next. My Cappy also had a ga-zillion friends and acquaintences when I met him. As we cultivated our love for one another, the acquaintences drifted away, and only the closest friends remain today. My Cappy has grown-up and is the most wonderful passionate human being I've ever met. I love him madly and currently we are working on the logistics of making our union official. We'll get there.

Much Luck to You.

Dearest Froggy-

I agree with the majority here - and aren't you happy you found out about this Libra's impluse to "disappear" now while you can still heal and move on relatively quickly???? I say sometimes unanswered prayers are our destiny and we don't need to always know "why"...consider yourself blessed because whatever the problem, it wasn't yours to own, leave it with him and find a new playmate (:O)} Time is on your side and remember - you can't change anyone but yourself - so have a dance, and love like you've never been hurt.

Seeme to me you actually dodged a bullet here - what if you had become even more involed and he just took off at that point? Tradegy and hurt left in his trail - tsk!tsk! Whatever, Dude!

I wish you many happy days ahead of you and the love you are meant to for is getting ready for you out there somewhere, so keep your senses tuned in and keep looking gorgeous.

edwjennifer:

Come on now, you DO know what you did (and so does he)....it was fun and felt like the right thing at the time. Now you both have up'ed the anti in your friendship(which will never be the same as before BTW). I lived a similar situation where my love at the time would come back and forth in and out of my life for almost 5 years after dating and a physical relationship. Every 2 years he would call me up and ask me out. I went and things always ended up in the bedroom leaving me wanting more. Then one day I realized that he really was trying to be my friend. He wanted the closeness of our bond, but didn't want to hold me up from finding the right mate for myself (which wasn't him). It was like he was guardian angel - and when I found my true soulmate - I eventually never heard from him again. Now he married with kids (happy I hope), and I will never forget how he looked out for me and I didn't even realize how much he loved me....Lesson learned - my advice: Enjoy yourself...if you are open to the next meeting, keep your control (don't give it up to him), have fun with your good old friend and know that having an everyday true loving relationship is not with him - remember that man is out there getting ready for you like you are getting ready for him - I promise. Know there are always times when we are going to go "retro" on ourselves - be forgiving of yourself and move on.

Take Good Care - The Blessed Lioness