I have a couple of questions I'd love to have answered please; I am a middle aged guy with a partner and family and for the last few months I have been having an affair with a gorgeous girl. I have never done this before and although I am feeling very guilty, I am so head over heels over the girl I am not sure which way to go..I don't know what the girl's feelings are towards me as she is not forthcoming about her thoughts on this subject. please advise. Thank you