Is my lovelife in the right track? Me 20.11.1968 him 21.07.69

I suspect she is keeping her options open. I think she wants you back and will make do in her current relationship until you confirm what it is you want. Good luck

Hi Deedee hope tgings are good for you. well...... I completely backed off and he is full on again. I am just going to continue as i am getting on and doing my own thing not falling into that trap again. I really like him but it's too complicated and stressful. I am only 12 month separated and have small children and I know my worth so if he wants me he can come and get me cos he's had all he's getting from me.

Hi sorry to hear about your situation. You should have masses of strength being a taurean. I am a Scorpio and we are very mysterious individuals. Sometimes how we are is not what we mean and that is what intrigues a lot of people. Scorpios have a strong magnetism and pull people in sometimes without realising it. I am not sure of your background but his response sounds like you mat have hurt him and he is seeking revenge and wants assurance of your intentions.

I can sort of understand both sides of this - if it is a once in a lifetime opportunity then I can understand his desire to go however, you will be thinking that if he was wanting to be with you then he wouldnt go.... Has he mentioned anything about your relationship whilst he is away?

Thanks Dee Dee - i hope everything works out for you. I have not at all been needy and nor will I be (I am too strong for that im a true scorpio). However I do appreciate the advice and have decided I am just going to get on with my life and do the things I used to and just see what happens. Some days I feel at a loss and other days I feel really positive and think I need to move on because life is precious and far too short to have to analyse every detail of your relationship. What will be will be .......

Thanks cancerman - its great to have you on these forums to get the insight from a cancerian male and your honesty is invaluable

Thanks again - rest assured I am not needy - just too analytical (by nature) - I totally get the time apart thing and its good for me too - I just dont want to think he is trying to tell me something and I am missing it. I dont smother him either - he said he wanted time alone and I said thats fine and he texted me first but again I hope he is not pushing me away to make me come closer to him!

I think I read too much about cancerians!

Well its confusing because we have seen each other practically every night since day one and things have been good - he has ocassionally said "i would like to be on my own tonight do you mind?" and for the first couple of times I said "thats fine" but the last time he did it I said yes I do mind and I am coming over and he liked that (I could tell) - i then said dont push me away because I am the kind of person that will just go - he hasnt done it since until tonight and I responded "thats fine" - he has texted several times tonight - just dont get it - is he telling me to go away or does he want me to stay???

Thanks - its all so confusing but I appreciate your advice

Still struggling a little - being in a relationship with a cancerian for almost five months. I have read a lot of things about them and how they work, he has never ignored me and calls, texts all the time. It was full on a first and now its like he is pulling back and I dont really understand why. We have had a couple of strong debates where we laid our cards on the table and i did tell him a few home truths as did he me. I suppose I need to know if I am flogging a dead horse or should I hang in there? is this normal? what action (if any) should I take?

Advice as always very welcome