I have to agree with you!
My home is a mess, but I usually know where most things are. I went nuts the other night trying to find a Tarot book for my daughter! (I found it in the file cabinent, lol)
I love pets and plants, if those two don't make a mess, I don't know what does! Birds! I have 3, a Grey, a Too and a handicapped parakeet. Yeah, mess. LOL.
I love to cook. I tend to be an empath. I cry when people (strangers even) tell me their life stories. I don't know why they do, but people just open up and spill their guts.
I have always held my tounge and do not critisize people. I do not know what they have gone through in this life to make them the way they are.
I know lots of unorganized Virgo's that are not prone to mental defects. In fact, I take offense at that. I am one of the strongest (mentally) people I know. I lost my parents in my 20's, I created my own family, raised my 3 girls by myself and now have 2 wonderful grandboys that I babysit, for nothing, so my daughters can work.
I am married to a broody, sullen, too quiet Leo. Going on 8 years now. I am really begining to hate it.
That is my biggest flaw, I have never been able to stay with one man for too long.
My father was a drunk, so, naturally I am attracted to the same. But, life is too short to live with a drunk. The last 3 guys have been x drunks. Hubby now, he will not even have a wine cooler with me! Bah.