let me tell you if after three years he does not know how he feels about you.......then he never will I was in a relationship like that and found out........after 11 years and never getting married that I was just o till he found what he really wanted.......sad but true......they lead you because you give them comfort but when they find what they are really looking for they walk away and are gone and you are left there with a broken heart!! move on if something does not change soon...life is too short not to be happy

always respect yourself, take all the time you need and if the guy really cares for you, how you feel will matter and he will respect you and your body and how you feel........there is alot of guys out just for sex.......so be careful love yourself.........take time to really know someone and when the time is right it will just happen and for all the right reasons........good luck!

If he has not married you by now he never will, I was with someone for 11 years and he always said we would get married, but we never did,,,,,If your not happy move on because you are just comfort for him.......thats what my guy told me I was comfort the kids and I took care of everyhing and he had the comfort with out being married and when the kids got older he left me for someone else and there I was older and starting over after all that wasted time......I never thought he would hurt me like that but he did........6 years on my own and I am still not ok with it...........sorry kids grow up and have their lifes and leave you alone.......do something do you want to end up alone with no one to love you...........a man who can be with you for 10 years will never marry you and does no love you like he should or he would have been married to you by now...............I lived it and I know what happens........please do not let it happen to you life is too short!!

let me tell you something, I was in a relationship for 11 years. I loved him with all my heart and thought we would be together till the end. I would have told any one that he loved me and would never let me down. But when I became sick with border line ovarin cancer, he let me down big time. I knew if it was him I would have moved haven and earth for him to survie and I knew I would not leave him, I knew when the Doctors told me I would live a long life, I was so happy and I turned to him and the excitement I thought he would have was not there, we went home and he was cold as ice nothing was never the same again,long story short, he was never the same with me again and I knew his love for me had died it was not strong enough to make it through everything we went through, His love was not deep enough for me, it was a surface love, lust or what ever you would like to call it, see real love is when you love the person inside not just the out side, love needs to be strong enough to make it no matter what real love never leaves you to be alone.............If someone can not be there when you or sick or sad or just feeling down........they do not love you and it is not the kind of love you want.......say good bye move on to find true love that will never leave you alone......I moved on and it was the hardest thing I have ever done but I know I did the right thing.......think about it.......move on!

Tell him how you feel, its always very important to let him know how you feel. You never know it just might be what breaks the ice and gets things going again, and then again it just might help you see the light that you need to move on for you!