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will the man I'm seeing turn out to be more than just a fling?

Barbara Sue Johnston

so this is all me? the reason he says the things he does is because hes just reflecting what he thinks we are because im seeing other people? He is my number one and i would drop everything for him but it appears he doesnt want me to tell him that. I guess i can put my cards on the table and see what he says but my gut says he will end it, which i guess could be for the better cause then i wont keep torturing myself, thanks for all the advice, wish me luck, Ill let you know the outcome

I dont believe he wants me to tell him anything, even if he does care about me because the other day we had a little argument which i cant clarify what it meant but it wasnt good, he said "hey we should get lunch together today, sneak out of work to get lunch at the same time" and i said," ahh cute" which seemed to be the wrong reaction because he said, " I didnt mean for it to be cute" then since i had no response he said, "I feel like were not on the same page" I told him what he said hurt my feelings cause it was so forward and he said, "were just friends, right?" "why do i feel like were not on the same page here?" then i said, "why do you think that?" then he said, "cause your upset, im just being honest, dont you appreciate my honesty?" and I said "yes i do it just comes out a little too harsh sometimes" and he said he was sorry and that was that. then he showed me lots of affection by holding my hand and kissing it and pulling me closer for cuddling. he was probably just trying to make me feel better is what i thought, how am i supposed to show or tell my true feelings to him when he reacts like that?

couple spirit? what is that? he seems to have a wall up, i don't want to show my true feelings and have him end what we do have, i know im confused but im only confused because he seems to be

I'm (cancer woman) seeing someone (scorpio man) who wants to be just friends with benefits (seems to be quite the thing to do these days) because he is moving back to his home town after school. He sends the most mixed messages, he acts like he wants more but tells me were just friends on the constant so that i know its nothing more, he's got it drilled in my brain, he can sense that i feel more. but when i tried to end it, he called me and seemed very upset and asked me why i was doing this, i explained once again but by the end of the three hour conversation, he had me convinced to keep seeing him. he says things that confuse me like, "your the only person im seeing right now" and tries to get an answer out of me but i didnt respond because im seeing others. he tries to dig for information about what ive been up to but i keep it on the surface, he knows im seeing others Ive told him but he wants to know more. he's respectful and stops when he can see i dont wanna talk about it, its just, what does it mean when he brings that stuff up? Is he just being a greedy man that wants me all to himself just to leave me? or are there feelings behind this man that he refuses to show? please help

my boyfriend constantly accuses me of cheating will he ever get over his insecurities?

My name is Barbara I'm 21 years old, I have a 1 1/2 year old daughter. I was wondering what my future looks like career wise and relationship (love) wise. I don't know which direction to go in college path wise and am lost and wasting time. my love life is dull and at wits end right now with the boyfriend i have and even though i love him or think i love him, im not sure he's the one. lost and in need of direction.. anyone reading please?

So Im 21 years old (cancer) and my boyfriend is a 23yr old (scorpio), and Im attracted to a 29yr old (scorpio) go figure. weve been together for almost 8 months and have been living together for quite some time... not sure what to do?

I know that.. I was thinking of being alone for the moment, i wanted to know what the future had in store for me and this new guy because well i decided to start dating him and things were going great but then i got sidetracked with my ex and im just seeing if the path is worth following so far Ive picked up that he has a great deal of neediness and when i try to get my space i feel like he gets upset but doesnt say anything and will get mad at me for it later in some way.. passive aggressive, Im just not good at breaking up with people and will prolong it because I dont know how to do it without hurting their feelings.. I know thats bad but honestly how do you do it?!