I don't know what to do! I love my husband, but he has many problems and so does my ex-boyfriend/fiance, but I still and always will love him! My husband has done so many things to cause our relationship to fizzle out..if you know what I mean. My ex and I never had that problem and the making up part was wonderful! I do not have that with my husband and I am not attracted to him anymore. He is such a good person and father and husband as well, BUT he just has problems that are putting a tremendous strain on our marriage and causing me way to much stress! What do I do? I have children and I don't want to make it hard on them but most of the time my oldest child asks me questions like "are you and dad getting a divorce?" and " I think you would be happier if you two had some time apart." That alone can make a mother feel like a total loser of a parent. I ask you all again, What do I do? If anyone wants to talk about this I will get into more detail about what my husband is doing to ruin our marriage. If anyone is having the same or similar problems or feelings that I am, then please write me back.

Also my ex is not the reason for me wanting to leave, but I really never got over him when I got married and now that things are falling apart with my husband and I, it makes me miss what we had (the ex & I ) even more.