Its under TAROT for some reason lol.
Thank you so much for your kindness! Its been a real rollercoaster ride lol! At least I learned from my experiences and I know what to look for! It will do us all good to just take a look at the dating scammer sites hopefully BEFORE we jump into the online scene lol! This was all so new to me that I had no clue! Now I do lol! I hope i find someone too. I hope all of us can find someone we enjoy and who is just plain good to us! I know I am not the best looking woman out there, but i like to have fun and i think i have a good personality lol. A little wacky at times but I'm sure there's someone out there who likes that lol. Just have to find him!!
Areopa and LIbrasLair,
I hope you two are doing well! I decided to try plentyoffish and I am having a GREAT time lol! Its a little overwhelming but I will sort them out and be VERY picky lol! I always say things like what I said to the ex about sex lol! Its just my nature I guess lol. Better to tell it like it is thats my philosophy anyhow . I never cared if he liked it or not thats just the way it was, and if he didnt like it, then too bad! I have to say that I do value my street smarts more so than book smarts. LibrasLair you were wise to drop that creep like a hot potato lol!They talk to so many and you werent talking to just 1 person, so they cant keep their story straight lol! Pay enough attention and you catch it right away! The name I made for myself on plentyoffish is twizdedsista! I thought that was funny, so do my guy friends lol!
Take care girls and hang in there! There is hope for us all!
Good afternoon! I dont know why she appears to them as sickly. kath said that they have tried to tell her to go and she hasn't. My little girl always tells me that the ghosts she sees don't talk. maybe its because she's so young yet. the ghost only seems to come around when Kathys daughter is having emotional issues for whatever reason. i have this really cool digital photo that my ex took of my daughter one day. We were just playing around and she was standing on the bed and i was laying on the bed behind her. Well, when we looked at the picture, you couldn't even see me behind her and she was only a shadow in the background. The rest of the pic was all these bright swirly white lights surrounding her. its a really neat picture!
You must have been in complete shock when you had that thought and it unfolded right before your eyes. did you ever wonder how many others that may have happened to? You never know. Something like that has to effect so many people.
The one I met on matchmaker was a cinred1. hes a puke. Talks love and marriage wants you so bad,wants to meet you so bad then when you say ok lets meet, he disappears. never to be heard from again. Hell of a nice guy.Must be some kind of freak ego trip. You know, i kept telling him the whole time that he doesnt know that he would even like me once we meet and he never gave me any real info about himself. the only things i can think of are that he's either A: a hacker or B: a pervert who sells naked pics of women that he may get. He didnt get any from me thank god lol. it does hurt your feelings though, because of their lies, and the whole fact that you just wasted all this time on someone who isn't even real
Dont be ashamed of yourself. You were FULLY taken advantage of. The last time I was tested for anything, I was pregnant. i dont know about other states but NY automatically tests you for everything and they told me that if I do not wish to be tested for HIV or AIDS that I could opt out but they automatically test the baby when its born, so I might as well do it so if I did have it, they could begin treatment for me and the baby. So I got tested. I always made my husband wear a condom too. It was something that my gyno said to me that made me do it. He said that it doesnt matter if you are married or not, he's seen it a thousand times where women catch an std from their cheating husbands. I am now really glad that I did that. He complained but I always said " How bad do you want it? I can go without lol"He, to this day will not go buy condoms. It is so stupid. I think its because mentally, he is 13. Thats the age he was when he started using drugs. Lol, I used to tell people that I had a little girl and a teenage son at home. My sense of humor helps me get through a lot of tough situations and I always say that if I didn't have bad luck, I wouldn't have any luck at all! lol keep your chin up and your head held high. You are a beautiful person inside with a lot to give others. I have already learned a lot from you and the other people here. So glad to be here with you and share experiences with you! :>)