I've learned not to read into things that men say...Actions speak louder than words. Men are really little boys, afraid to let go of one toy before they have another. When a man loves you, he loves you. When they say I really care about you but you are not on the receiving end of that caring...cut him loose. It's really hard, I know but if you cut yourself off from men and they really want you back they will do what it takes to get you back. As women we are always trying to figure out if he really means this or does he mean that. Maybe it's cause he was hurt as a child or someone else hurt them...or may be they were dropped on their head at birth, who knows why they do and say the things they do. It's not your job to figure it out, it's their job to figure out what they want, and communcate what they want honestly. If they can't do that, they need to leave you alone till they can figure it out. Begging just puts the power in his hands, after all you can't make some feel what they don't...as difficult as it is to hear that and for me to write...it's true. If he is confused allow him the time to figure it out, then let him chase you if he really loves you. If he doesn't then more than likely wouldn't of worked anyway, you both need to be on the same page to make it work. I wish you the best of luck!
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RE: Cancer woman confused about Taurus ex
RE: Cancer leo love mystery
I'm a cancer girl and had a leo boyfriend. It didn't work for me... He was also insensitive and self centered, for Leo's it's about them. Cancer's are so sensitive and like to loved and praised and made to feel secure, if someone does that for us...we'll do anything for them. You will grow tried of not getting what you need out of the relationship, that is at least what happened to me.
Once I woke up one day...which took a while...and thought I'm done with this dude, it was over.
It shocked him and he tried to make it work but all I could think of was you had your chance. It's better and so much easier to be in a relationship where there is give and take, no relationship is perfect but they have to care about how they make you feel. If he doesn't care about how he makes you feel, and he knows you are sensitive, he'll use your feeling and emotions against you. I understand that you have a baby, but it is so much easier to be with someone that cares about you. You deserve that, really that isn't asking too much...it just may be asking to much of him.
I don't know if you have a job or an education but if the answer is no to either, then put more work into one of those. Cause trust me, the fact that he asked you to leave already tells me that he is attacking your need to feel secure.
My mom always used to say..." Lay down and be a door matt, don't be upset when someone walks on you" You teach people how to treat you, even the man you love.
If you decide to speak to him to work things out, you need to let him know that kicking you out of your home is not acceptable at anytime, I don't care who you live with. I know you love him, and I don't know your relationship...but you should be thinking of what type of relationship you want your child to grow up viewing, cause that is how your child will first see a love relationship. Think about the type of relationship you would want for your child, then that is the type of example you should show your child. Your husband needs to be on board with that as well, if he does care about your feelings, he sure better care about your childs feelings. If not, then you'd better run.
Best of Luck! Just remember though...even if you love him now...you won't be able to handle someone who doesn't care about your feelings, cancer's are their feeling and emotions...it won't work, sorry Sweetie!