And by the way the 5 year relationship is taking me through hell and back over the last 10 months. I'm ready to move on but I like yourself just don't want to let it go! I know that staying in this dead end relationship I'm only hurting myself. When it was good it was good but now it's gotten really bad and I'm just stuck. Don't ever feel that your the only one going through a bad relationship by yourself. Like I said good and bad things happen with every sign it's not just us. Keep telling yourself that you deserve better and pray for strenght to get out or pray for understanding that you guys can work things out. But please don't doubt yourself as we often do.

Hi Kris I'm sorry that your going through a tough time with relationships. I'm a 46 year old woman and I can tell you that I've been through the same. I've been in not one and not two but several bad long term relationships. I was married for 12 years with an Aquarius, a 10 year relationship with another Cancer and now almost 5 years with a Virgo. I think in any sign there may or may not be problems. If you feel that you can't handle what's going on you need to get out. We as Cancers like to hold onto bad relationships and find that in the end they just don't work out and we're left holding on to the hurt it's caused us. If in your heart of hearts telling you to let it go deal with the hurt now and just move on.

I'm sorry this has happen to you but not all signs are alike. I'm a Cancer and I would never ever think about hooking up with one of my friends boyfriends or a relative husband or friend. I'm loyal to my family and friends and would never cross that line. I wish you well.

I'm a Cancer and I've in a relationship with a Virgo for the last 5 years and I can say other than another Cancer I would never ever date another Virgo. The virgo I'm involved with is a horrible liar and a cheater. One thing I can and will say about him is when things were good they were damn good but when it's bad it's normally very bad. I find that he's never ever wrong in anything he's done wrong. He cheated on me with another co-work and never once said he was sorry, nor has he stopped seeing her but of course he says he's not sleeping with her their just good friends. But let him think I've done something wrong and all hell breaks out. I find him to be very flighty, inpredictable, very critical, highly selfish and very very mean. He's younger than I am and I know that age shouldn't play a part in loving a person but he was or so I thought mature in the beginning but now he's like a kid in a candy store. I know for him he's insecure but will never ever admit it so for all his insecurities that makes him mean.

I'm a cancern woman and I would never date another cancer man. I'm June 28th and he's July 4th we dated for over 10 years. He cheated, lied, didn't call nor did I see him for weeks on end and out of the blue he'd call or come over as if nothing was wrong. We're friends now and broke up almost 5 years ago. I can't say that all cancer men are the same but being a cancer woman I couldn't trust the one I was with. Their flighty

I'm not sure how old you two are but he sounds a little young. I'm a cancer woman and I have never and would never treat anyone like that. If you guys have only been dating 2 or 3 months why would you want to stay in that relationship? I can't speak for any other cancer but myself and I can say that yes each and every relationship I've been in they have cheated. In life we take the good with the bad. My thing is take what you can get from any relationship that's good or bad and if the relationship isn't working learn and move on. Too many times we stay in relationship thinking things will get better but with each passing day it doesn't I say get out get the lesson and inprove on the next relationship. I'm sorry that your going through this with a cancer or any other sign but if it's only been a month or two decide what's best for you and your heart.

I'm really sorry that your going through all this but like most of us we go through it and turn out ok. One thing I can say is you can't let this stop you from being happy and finding that special person. That person that will love you for who you are and what you do for them. We've all been hurt and I mean really hurt by someone we trusted and put our trust into. Just remember you haven't dated all men so remember all men are not the same. And that not all men will hurt you stay hopeful and when the time is right you'll find that special person. I'm in a bad relationship myself with a man younder than me. It's hard because we work together same department and he cheated with another person in our department and yes I have to see them each and everyday. It's not easy but you can't let another person break your spirits. Pray and keep whatever faith you have. A co-worker told me and I'll never forget it. You can't take a short cut through your pain, you must go through it in order to come out of it.

Oh my God! Can this really be happening. I'm a Cancer as well and for the last year my life has been a living hell. I'll be 46 June 28th and my boyfriend is putting me through hell. I guess it is out with the old and in with the new. We work together and 7 months ago he started sleeping with another co-worker same department as we work in same floor. Somehow it's my fault and like most Cancer's we believe that crap. I'm angry, I'm hurt and I don't know how to get out of this relationship!