Well this topic "All Things Cancer Men" is probably the best, where instead of complaining (well, there's some light complaining but bearable) there's some factual information here. I'm a Scorp, pisces moon & rising, and have a Cancer gentleman slow but sure persisting me. I think of him, and he contacts within seconds...each and every time. <--very strange. For now it's more text/some phone, but it's at a pace I am comfortable with as well as he. I just KNOW this man is going to be a part of my remaining life. I do not know how I KNOW...I just do.
What I'd like to comment about is no matter where you go and do your research on the internet, I have found time after time, Cancer males (unless they have a lot of fire or air in their charts) are hands down best suited with, in tune with, other females of water. (again unless the females have a lot of air/fire in their charts) There is an undeniable comfort level and understanding of one another where no question has to be asked, it's already known/sensed. I believe Taurus and Virgo are second runners up but still lack the intense emotions water signs feel. Taurus is packed with PASSION, but still do not hold the unspoken do I dare say psychic connection as the female water signs. It's something the other elements (fire, earth & air) don't understand or underestimate. It has been my experience with cancer friends that they tend to test these other elements more so than the water signs. Sure, there might be an initial test to the water signs by a cancer, pisces or scorpio, but that's usually all it takes. They sense so much more quickly where that water sign is at...usually at the same level of understanding. Supposedly (and without reading any info. on Cancers I sensed) between my scorp sun, pisces moon & rising, this guy is my perfect match with his moon in cancer and rising scorp. Yet I've met other cancer males with fire in their charts or worse air, there's a clear difference. Even still there's that unspoken communication...we simply GET EACH OTHER. So when I see female air/fire signs knocking these cancers down, I can understand why they do. I also see their frustrations as to why the Cancer male is constantly testing the crap out of them. He is missing that understanding, doesn't feel the deep down emotional vibe so he MUST test, and test to see if he can one day completely relax, be himself and love unconditionally, lovingly with the passion that's hidden deep within himself.
Now, I don't claim to be an expert on Cancers, but it's what I feel and sense in these wonderful crustaceans! This man I speak of in my situation, I just know we both have had our walls up our entire lives, and it's just ready to explode. Now, that can be a good thing, or it can be somewhat negative, but I'm telling you, I have so much in my heart and soul that's been guarded because of my high sensing level and smart enough not to give it to the wrong person that it's bubbling over just waiting for this Cancer to meet me half way. Anyway, this is just a personal observation and I wonder if other Cancers here agree in that respect. Yes...I got burned by a Pisces male......who had air in his chart a very long time ago...very deceitful. But I learned to hone in and sense this deceit and damn if I wasn't correct in others who tried to pursue me who I've turned down and later learned......they were snakes! Good for me! Anyway, your thoughts on this would be appreciative. Everyone have a very safe holiday! Happy New Year!