@Purpleair --- As if getting involved with a Cancer wasn't enough in itself...a 'married cancer' is just what one needs to be suicidal! Nope, I'm not here to condemn you but a wake up call is what you may need at this hour. I'm a firm believer in "Don't do unto others what you don't want done to you." A cancer usually never leaves his family for his 'affairs' and that alone should give one idea of what's in store. Whats 'love' for you may just be the fling this guy needs to spice up life for himself at the moment. A female deserves and needs more than 6 minutes (symbolically) from a guy afterall. I hate encroaching someone's personal space but given the fact that you've shared your thing on these forums...Most of us do feel compelled to contribute whatever li'l we can to help you think clearly. Give yourself a coupla months w/o your married cancer (as hard as it may be working together and all) and think things through, gal. This cooling off period may very well disclose the direction your cancer is headed towards. All the best
P.S.-- Yours truly has been associated w/ a cancer in the past for almost 4 years.
@PiscesParadox -- Loved reading your bit of contribution...hope it helps purpleair.
@intrigued -- You had me in splits w/ your 'bit' C'mon be gentle... :))))