@Purpleair --- As if getting involved with a Cancer wasn't enough in itself...a 'married cancer' is just what one needs to be suicidal! Nope, I'm not here to condemn you but a wake up call is what you may need at this hour. I'm a firm believer in "Don't do unto others what you don't want done to you." A cancer usually never leaves his family for his 'affairs' and that alone should give one idea of what's in store. Whats 'love' for you may just be the fling this guy needs to spice up life for himself at the moment. A female deserves and needs more than 6 minutes (symbolically) from a guy afterall. I hate encroaching someone's personal space but given the fact that you've shared your thing on these forums...Most of us do feel compelled to contribute whatever li'l we can to help you think clearly. Give yourself a coupla months w/o your married cancer (as hard as it may be working together and all) and think things through, gal. This cooling off period may very well disclose the direction your cancer is headed towards. All the best

P.S.-- Yours truly has been associated w/ a cancer in the past for almost 4 years.

@PiscesParadox -- Loved reading your bit of contribution...hope it helps purpleair.

@intrigued -- You had me in splits w/ your 'bit' C'mon be gentle... :))))

Thanks RCdreamer and Zephire :)) I've been on this site since a year and it still amazes me to see how so many of us take time out to be on these forums to support and care for others! You guys wouldn't believe if I told you how much I've come to depend on these boards for my own upliftment and spiritual guidance! And there are many others who'd echo the same sentiments. Imagine Homo Sapiens reaching out and helping one another w/o ever meeting in person. A cousin refused to believe that until I brought her here! Thanks everyone for sharing your profound wisdom and positive thoughts (something the world could sure use today).

PiscesParadox, here's what I found about Cancer males w/ Sag moon on one of the websites :

The Cancer Sun/Sagittarius Moon combination produces a blended personality consisting of of contradictory elements...the Cancer desire for caution, tenacity and security, for example, coupled with the more outgoing Sagittarius tendency to be outgoing and independent. Cancer natives governed by a Sagittarius Moon do tend to be more sociable and progressive in demeanor than others ruled by the Sign of the Crab, making its subjects better able to relate to generalities and ideas on a more real and practical basis. Cancer persons who fall under the jurisdiction of a Sagittarius Moon can inspire confidence in those around them and in their relationships with others, absolute honesty will be demanded. Indeed, when these Cancer persons detect falsity and insincerity in dealings, the sensitive and defensive side of the nature will quickly appear. Petty jealousies and trite behavior will repel these individuals and they tend to live, more or less, by their own personal set of rules...often attempting to "live up to" some ideal or idol they have set up as a goal or inspiration. Cancer Sun/Sagittarius Moon subjects are innate philosophers in the way they look at life and in their consideration of those around them. In many ways, they are true "free spirits." While Cancer natives governed by a Sagittarius Moon are extremely polite and tactful, they appear to have no difficulty in being firm and definite. Communication is frank, open and nobody will ever have to wonder where these Cancer persons stand on any issue. With the Cancer Sun/Sagittarius Moon combination, weakness or timidity is rarely a problem.

@PiscesParadox -- I wouldn't wanna judge a person merely by their sign but yes, it helps if you have their natal info handy sometimes A Sag male is like an untamed stallion...an anti domestic person looking for adrenaline rush even in their relationships! Life's interesting and full of surprises w/ Sags but if you're a sensible sensitive person looking for reliability and security...you may feel let down bigg time! They like successful independent and 'non-claiming' women and don't hesitate to start a relationship when they fine one. Life's never planned and details are overlooked to a frustrating extent. Sags are the 'up and go' kinds who don't wait around much for others. Often living their life in fast lane, they forget there is a sensitive side ro life and people as well. Blunt to a fault...they'd go on breaking your heart if you dont check them in time. Generous with family and friends, expect surprises and gifts when they're pleased with you and shocks when they're not! Sags don't like liars but could lie to others if required! High on freedom and excitement, its tough to keep up w/ their pace if you're a slow mover like taurus, cancer or a pisces. They don't like suffering and so run the fastest to hills, at the first sign of struggle in a relationship. Do not nag and show them your mettle if you're still interested... All said and done, life's NEVER dull w/ a Sag male :))

If there's one special thing I'm thankful for apart from my life and loved ones...it has to be the dream I had had 2 nights ago about my dad now being at peace! He passed away 9 years ago under 'mysterious' circumstances and he's been making his presence felt some way or the other all these years...But now I feel he's calmer than before...and can show me the way...

Just a BUMP to keep it on the top ;))

Great work BrianTristan.

Bump!

I love what I read here!

@Arizona Sunday --- Thanx for dropping in What you shared about Sags is funny and true! I'm perhaps a victim of something called 'Bad Timing and bad judgement' !! So can't really blame it all on him But yes, it feels terrible to know that I'm alone in all my troubles and emotional disturbances with a Sag Its true they're in it only for good times! Excitement and adventure can't last for life...

@dancealot2009 -- Yeah you're right about Sags not liking clingy selfish people and thats one reason probably my sag married me for I'm an independent non clingy female and don't need a man to tell me what to do all the time. And what amazes me to the core is the fact this is the only relationship that has my dark side creeping in slowly but steadily. Never before I felt so! Or maybe its because i am left to fend for myself during all my bad times that i feel i m turning into a selfish person! Whatever it is...i'm not liking it. Lets give it some more time...

@PiscesParadox -- Cancer with a Sag moon. Interesting times lay ahead for you my dear ;))

@leoscorpion -- That's help yes. Thanx

@llindieloo -- Sandran712 got banned?? Christ !!! I'm gonna miss her witty remarks and sound insight! Diplomacy wasn't her best trait I guess...and too much of honesty got her into trouble perhaps? do say hello to her from me anyway :)) And you w/o a man right now...its better to be alone than to be with a wrong person llindieloo...all of know that by now....dont we ;))

Oops sorry for the typo....It was find* and not fine*