Posts made by arieslady89

I have the doreen Virtue cards - Angel therapy and also just oracle cards

Thanks for the advice

Well i wouldnt put her past the fact of taking advantage of mr gemini. I know he was irrisponsible at the time - but he was drinking to excess - binging on the weekends - basically only intrested in manipulative aqaurious when he was full of booze. The only manly thing he has in his life is a full time job.

Its just strange - aqaurious lady gets pregnent when she wants to the most - she has been fighting for a bigger house off the state as she already has 4 young girls and herself and mr gemini in a 2 bedroom flat. Mr gemini then leaves her for me and tells the whole world i am who he wants to be with then she sleeps with a guy while 5 mnth pregnent. I cant work her out but i do know by the way she barged her way in between me and mr gemini in the first instance just 2 yrs ago that she is using mr gemini for her own uses. sick, but it goes on. I hope he shows her whos got the upper hand.

Do you believe in karma?

And thankyou, ur a very sweet down to earth lady and i know alot of people on here appreciate ur help

Thankyou patchlove and im happy for you and your grandson. Congratualtions. I have a nephew who will be shortly arriving. Cant wait!

Well im still in the process of sorting things out with new accomodation.

Its stressful and frustrating. Im trying to focus on this instead of my feelings. Time will heal. ive been here once before with mr Gemini. I know he knows he has made a massive mistake. He told me about 4 months ago he just wishes he hadnt got this aquarious lady pregnant as its all been done against his will.

I just feel that he wants me to make the happy ending walk in and take him out the equation. He needs to find out if the child is his but hey again its out my hands.

Its very hard to let him go when he came in my life again for a short period and due to the hurt and arguing we had, i pushed him right back out again. I regret this but its bad timing with all the uncertainty going on and more importantly the grief i was getting from his current partner.

I have a mutal friend with him, a man we used to go and visit occasionally good friend of both of ours, he is also saddened by us splitting a 2nd time.

This morning the man had a call from mr Gemini regarding a dog...i sold my young dog to the man as i have to down size soon. Anyway my friend told me he had told mr gemini he bought a dog from myself and he said mr gemini sounded sad in his voice...i think it may of hit a nerve.

Neither of us are settled or happy being apart. It feels im only half alive. Everytime i see him in my mind, a tear rolls down my cheek.

Maybe i need to go for some hypnotherapy lol

Enough of my rambling and i apologise for sounding so self centred.

Hope to hear back from you soon Patchlove

Big thumbs up for you and your grandson

Hello there patchlove,

Well my interests are being outdoors. Horse riding, sea fishing being with my pets and walking my dog.

I know its a sad situation my ex has got himself into. I saw him the other day with one of her (the lady he has an unborn child with) girls. He saw me and just got up straight away and walked the opposite direction, Im just hurt he cant even be in the same area as me. Why did he walk away....was he hurting when he saw me?

We are still an open book. I just wish i could help him correct his mistakes and help him make the best out of a bad situation. Mutal friends of ours have all said the same thing that he was soo happy and delighted that we had rekindled once more. If so why walk away so easily....Gemini men are such sensitive people that they cant deal with their emotions in any other way than walking away and dealing with them.

I hope you are well patchlove

Thankyou very much patch love. its all behind me now. My ex has alot of problems he needs to deal with. He is having a little boy to a lady who he doesnt even like let alone love.

i just want to find happiness again, im fed up of starting another new day feeling alone. I have barriers up when meeting new people and i just fight with them all the time.

Times are hard and hope the saying is true - good always comes out of bad.

Just lots of pressure at the moment.

Me and my ex partner have got alot of history, we got back together 4 months ago after a 14 month split.

Some strange things have been occuring since we split recently. Me and my ex have had no direct contact at all. The last thing he said to me was to get on with my life as he is getting on with his - thats a fair point and i accepted that.

Since i have been involved with other guys not intermatly but enough for him to know from his pal i work with that im moving on.

Last weekend when he was away to a country fair i had his name look in on my page on a forum site - Was this his though? the same night i had his gf's cousin try add me on facebook then 3 days after that her eldest daughter adds me aswell - i declined both.

Last night i got a text out the blue seemingly texting another girl and it looks like my ex number - im non the wiser as i dont have his number anymore. So i text back asking who it was? - No text back then i text again asking if it was my gemini ex - reply straight back saying "no i text wrong number dont text this number again"...since then i have had no text from that number again. But they must know me to have my number.

I still havnt found out if it was my exs number and was it actually him using his phone at the time. But i told that person behind that number that i knew it was my ex due to the silence i was getting.

Can anyone shed any light on why all these things could be happening

Thanks muchly and hope you can help in some way

Many thanks for ur words. I am getting round to closing it. I have mutal friends with this gemini and i get more and more negative feedback about him. He is in trouble with the law due to this aquarian women - she made out she was being battered by a group of girls a few weeks ago on a night out, gemini's sister who is very close to this Aquarian rang gemini up and got him to come down and sort it - he sorted it alright - got himself charged with 2 assults on 2 women. The aquarian women provoked the whole situation and got him banged up for that weekend. How very nice!

He saw the light a few months ago and came back for me. After we had words i told him im worth more than all this. And that i wanted him out my life because i was hurting too much (i still am). I apologised for the rash message and he just turned around and said get on with ur life im gettin on with mine on my own.

Its soo hard to accept i have lost a close person in my life due to bad influences. We are solemates and arnt happy being appart.

If anything i hope he escapes and finds happiness in someone else if it isnt me

All what you say makes sence. Just very confusing, He never wanted to let me go after we had words. But now he is back with the mother of his child - im just a distant memory. How can he just turn off his feelings like that. Going from telling me he doesnt want to loose me again to nothing! We have such a spark its unreal. He needs to tell me he doesnt love me and that he doesnt want a life with me. I need closure and i have no idea how im going to get that now. I have cut him off like he has to me, but deep deep down its not what we both want we want the opposite. We dont like being apart and i know this is why he has gone off the rails. I just wanna be there for him but he just wont allow it although he wants that too. Really need to get to the bottom of all this. Its been going on for far to long.

I know it will devestate him. She only wants this kid for one reason and thats to get a bigger house - So that tells me she doesnt care who the father is. I care about gemini alot and i dont want him hurting. But the more i hear the more i feel why do i feel so much for him. I need closure and im never going to get it unless i take the move and close it.

He is back drinking at weekends and sleeping around....Why is he doing this when he knows what is coming his way? Why not try and work things out with me?

I wrote a letter and left it with his clothes i took round to the place he is stayin at - he read it. it was a very emotional letter and he hasnt replied to it. Hasnt spoken to me. Just totally cut me off. No explanation after bringing me all the way to scotland to be with him. He has just dropped me like a sack of spuds!

Im in a mess

Hi i just wondered if anyone can tell me how to properly use these cards. I really want to use them just now but my head is all over the place and i feel i cant connect very well.

What can you ask these cards?

Are they accurate?

When he was with me i had mentioned about getting a DNA test as everyone in this small town know what the aquarian is like. She was sleeping with a different man when gemini left her for me - maybe she was being bitchy but i would never dream of sleeping around when im pregnant! Sooo disrespectful.

He said nope - i know the baby is 100% mine. And i thought but how can you know? She didnt even let him go to the 5month scan. She changed the goal posts regarding that!? ....Alarm bells ringing!

He wouldnt talk to me about anything regarding the baby. He kept telling me to drop it and stop bringing up old ground..Hummm!

Thanks for ur comments. Yea i like to think im pretty down to earth. I wouldnt say he cheated but he let this horrid aquarian into his life setting himself up for life of misery. We both know what we want but this women is like a brick wall trying to keep us apart. Making us bitter against one another. She is 10 yrs older than both of us and has a ready made family from different men. She has used my gemini as a glorified babysitter and now another father to another kid she will give birth to. He is far from ready and all he wants to do is break away from her. But now he has a boy on the way he feels he just needs to stick with a bad situation and "make do".

Its highly frustrating for me. Why cant he sort things out! and put his foot down....is it because his name isnt on the birth certificate yet?? Will the tables turn again when this baby is born?

Why is it that it seems Gemini's ive met always have this trait of just accepting a bad situation for what it is? Why do they find it hard to make a bad situation a better one for themselves? Talk about making life hard for yourself!!??

The reason why im asking this, is because my solemate is a gemini. We are no longer together after an aquarius women tore us apart. She has trapped him with a baby - to which he is not ready for (he is only 23).

Recently i found out after telling myself, his family and my family that whatever happens between me and my gemini he wasnt going back to the Aquarian. Although she is pregnant he wasnt going to go back to her.

With all the pressure he is under with a situation he doesnt want to be in he has got himself in to more trouble - he now has 2 charges of assult - caused by the aquarian he is having a kid with.

If this Aquarian is so much trouble in his life despite the fact she is the mother of his unborn kid (her track record could proove the kid not even being mr Gemini's) - Why on earth has he gone back to her? Has she threatened him to get her own way AGAIN!?

He has a future with me - we love eachother very much. But the aquarian wont leave us to get on with life together. She kept using her youngest kid as a weapon to get my gemini back.

We havnt spoken to one another for over a month now. one minuet he came back in my life not wanting to loose me again and now he has vanished!

What is going on!!?

Is he trying to make a good situation out of a bad one?

Thanks for reading

Gemini's hate being chased - I would play it cool and let him to the work besides he has let you down soo its his loss and he needs time to realise that

yea its the memories that kinda get the heart strings going. I know what you say is right star. I got abit drunk and was thinking deeply. I havnt been hassling my ex or even contacting him ive been giving him space that he wanted. But i just sent a short but sweet msg to him via a website we both use. He hasnt read it yet nor has he deleted it. Time will tell.

Just cant understand why its a problem just being friendly to us and letting us know how they feel...I need closure to move on i really need it this time if he wants total closure. Its just gettin a chance to gain it.....x

Yea i know its pretty painful. But time is a good healer. i have spent over a year with no contact with this person and im sure ile be able to do it again....he came back that time. But circumstances are much different with him now....Who Knows. Lets hope he finds happiness elsewhere or comes to his senses.

U speak alot of sense star. Just i have this doubt with him not communicating with me that he is forgetting all of what we had and could have despite all the crap.

Im in the same boat willgeminimancomeback. I dont know wether to msg my ex and see if all is ok. But that will show i care...and they may milk this and take advantage of this gesture. I pretty much forgot about my ex when i split up with him the 1st time then he came back begging. It was then i realised i wasnt over him completely and i took him back. Now ive been let down again. He is under alot of pressure and may not want me involved in his troubles as he know it just hurts.

I just dont know...

Hehe thats a good way of putting it - basically move on. But if we do and find another guy they will just back off ??

Mines the 15th april His is 26 may

Im an aries and the love of my life is a gemini....Ive learnt dont chase. I went 14 mnths without contact with my gemini and he came running back. Said things ul never hear any other man say....but the circumstances were different. i feel geminis cant handle more than one thing. And they have to prioritise things, Unfortunatly for us both we havnt reached the top of the list. Best thing you can do is leave him.

Its hard and hurts. Im still crying some days after 3 wks of my relationship with gemini splitting up. Theres just more than a spark between us, Solemates. But things/people just get in the way. But im sure with a clear mind they will come back to the one they love. The one that keeps bugging them every day in their heads. Atb