I have the doreen Virtue cards - Angel therapy and also just oracle cards
Thanks for the advice
Well i wouldnt put her past the fact of taking advantage of mr gemini. I know he was irrisponsible at the time - but he was drinking to excess - binging on the weekends - basically only intrested in manipulative aqaurious when he was full of booze. The only manly thing he has in his life is a full time job.
Its just strange - aqaurious lady gets pregnent when she wants to the most - she has been fighting for a bigger house off the state as she already has 4 young girls and herself and mr gemini in a 2 bedroom flat. Mr gemini then leaves her for me and tells the whole world i am who he wants to be with then she sleeps with a guy while 5 mnth pregnent. I cant work her out but i do know by the way she barged her way in between me and mr gemini in the first instance just 2 yrs ago that she is using mr gemini for her own uses. sick, but it goes on. I hope he shows her whos got the upper hand.
Do you believe in karma?
And thankyou, ur a very sweet down to earth lady and i know alot of people on here appreciate ur help
Thankyou patchlove and im happy for you and your grandson. Congratualtions. I have a nephew who will be shortly arriving. Cant wait!
Well im still in the process of sorting things out with new accomodation.
Its stressful and frustrating. Im trying to focus on this instead of my feelings. Time will heal. ive been here once before with mr Gemini. I know he knows he has made a massive mistake. He told me about 4 months ago he just wishes he hadnt got this aquarious lady pregnant as its all been done against his will.
I just feel that he wants me to make the happy ending walk in and take him out the equation. He needs to find out if the child is his but hey again its out my hands.
Its very hard to let him go when he came in my life again for a short period and due to the hurt and arguing we had, i pushed him right back out again. I regret this but its bad timing with all the uncertainty going on and more importantly the grief i was getting from his current partner.
I have a mutal friend with him, a man we used to go and visit occasionally good friend of both of ours, he is also saddened by us splitting a 2nd time.
This morning the man had a call from mr Gemini regarding a dog...i sold my young dog to the man as i have to down size soon. Anyway my friend told me he had told mr gemini he bought a dog from myself and he said mr gemini sounded sad in his voice...i think it may of hit a nerve.
Neither of us are settled or happy being apart. It feels im only half alive. Everytime i see him in my mind, a tear rolls down my cheek.
Maybe i need to go for some hypnotherapy lol
Enough of my rambling and i apologise for sounding so self centred.
Hope to hear back from you soon Patchlove
Big thumbs up for you and your grandson
Hello there patchlove,
Well my interests are being outdoors. Horse riding, sea fishing being with my pets and walking my dog.
I know its a sad situation my ex has got himself into. I saw him the other day with one of her (the lady he has an unborn child with) girls. He saw me and just got up straight away and walked the opposite direction, Im just hurt he cant even be in the same area as me. Why did he walk away....was he hurting when he saw me?
We are still an open book. I just wish i could help him correct his mistakes and help him make the best out of a bad situation. Mutal friends of ours have all said the same thing that he was soo happy and delighted that we had rekindled once more. If so why walk away so easily....Gemini men are such sensitive people that they cant deal with their emotions in any other way than walking away and dealing with them.
I hope you are well patchlove
Thankyou very much patch love. its all behind me now. My ex has alot of problems he needs to deal with. He is having a little boy to a lady who he doesnt even like let alone love.
i just want to find happiness again, im fed up of starting another new day feeling alone. I have barriers up when meeting new people and i just fight with them all the time.
Times are hard and hope the saying is true - good always comes out of bad.
Just lots of pressure at the moment.
Me and my ex partner have got alot of history, we got back together 4 months ago after a 14 month split.
Some strange things have been occuring since we split recently. Me and my ex have had no direct contact at all. The last thing he said to me was to get on with my life as he is getting on with his - thats a fair point and i accepted that.
Since i have been involved with other guys not intermatly but enough for him to know from his pal i work with that im moving on.
Last weekend when he was away to a country fair i had his name look in on my page on a forum site - Was this his though? the same night i had his gf's cousin try add me on facebook then 3 days after that her eldest daughter adds me aswell - i declined both.
Last night i got a text out the blue seemingly texting another girl and it looks like my ex number - im non the wiser as i dont have his number anymore. So i text back asking who it was? - No text back then i text again asking if it was my gemini ex - reply straight back saying "no i text wrong number dont text this number again"...since then i have had no text from that number again. But they must know me to have my number.
I still havnt found out if it was my exs number and was it actually him using his phone at the time. But i told that person behind that number that i knew it was my ex due to the silence i was getting.
Can anyone shed any light on why all these things could be happening
Thanks muchly and hope you can help in some way
Many thanks for ur words. I am getting round to closing it. I have mutal friends with this gemini and i get more and more negative feedback about him. He is in trouble with the law due to this aquarian women - she made out she was being battered by a group of girls a few weeks ago on a night out, gemini's sister who is very close to this Aquarian rang gemini up and got him to come down and sort it - he sorted it alright - got himself charged with 2 assults on 2 women. The aquarian women provoked the whole situation and got him banged up for that weekend. How very nice!
He saw the light a few months ago and came back for me. After we had words i told him im worth more than all this. And that i wanted him out my life because i was hurting too much (i still am). I apologised for the rash message and he just turned around and said get on with ur life im gettin on with mine on my own.
Its soo hard to accept i have lost a close person in my life due to bad influences. We are solemates and arnt happy being appart.
If anything i hope he escapes and finds happiness in someone else if it isnt me
All what you say makes sence. Just very confusing, He never wanted to let me go after we had words. But now he is back with the mother of his child - im just a distant memory. How can he just turn off his feelings like that. Going from telling me he doesnt want to loose me again to nothing! We have such a spark its unreal. He needs to tell me he doesnt love me and that he doesnt want a life with me. I need closure and i have no idea how im going to get that now. I have cut him off like he has to me, but deep deep down its not what we both want we want the opposite. We dont like being apart and i know this is why he has gone off the rails. I just wanna be there for him but he just wont allow it although he wants that too. Really need to get to the bottom of all this. Its been going on for far to long.
I know it will devestate him. She only wants this kid for one reason and thats to get a bigger house - So that tells me she doesnt care who the father is. I care about gemini alot and i dont want him hurting. But the more i hear the more i feel why do i feel so much for him. I need closure and im never going to get it unless i take the move and close it.
He is back drinking at weekends and sleeping around....Why is he doing this when he knows what is coming his way? Why not try and work things out with me?
I wrote a letter and left it with his clothes i took round to the place he is stayin at - he read it. it was a very emotional letter and he hasnt replied to it. Hasnt spoken to me. Just totally cut me off. No explanation after bringing me all the way to scotland to be with him. He has just dropped me like a sack of spuds!
Im in a mess