Hey ketira, well, I do have to say I know for a fact she saw and therapist a couple of years back, appearantly there were some issues going on between her and her mother and her being molested or touched when she was younger(but she never mentioned that to her mother or therapist, I discovered it on my own because of some signs I was able to pick up on regarding her attitude and when confronted, she admitted that much). The problem is that she never opens up to anybody or even therapist. As an aries, Im straightforward and many many times I would ask tough questions and all that would do was make her go into a shell. I was always trying to be there for her, always mentioned to have her get more therapy, I was very supportive but she just refused and now, in our on and off relationship im puzzled and hurt. I mean Ive been there for her for the past 3 years, done soo much for her, sacrificed, not just time, money, energy but also love to show her how much she means to me and that i want to be there for her. Out of the blue one day in may, she brakes up with me and ignores me for weeks, then comes back and is very loving caring as if nothing happened and tells me how much she loves me, and now all of the sudden she disappeared, I know she loves me, but im puzzled and wondering why she is trying to be out of my life when she herself tells me she loves me but she tells me that i deserve more. I'm sorry to rumble on and on about my feelings. thank you for everyone that takes time to read and and reply to this post

Inspired by the last post Ive read, 'how to deal with a Capricorn man' i was wondering, are capricorn women the same? I've been on and off with such a woman for the past 3 years, and it seems like they are 2 people in one. I was always scratching my head, and still am, one minute shes one way, next shes totally different. It leaves me very confused. It amazes me how quickly she can be so sweet and loving, and because of something she sees on tv or a comment i say sometimes an insignificant comment, she literally begins to punch me. I hope I make sense, feel free to ask more questions if I confused you all.