My husband is a Virgo and my Mother was also.

My husband has a problem with abusive language. Not cursing so much as being insulting and critical and sarcastic or hollering.

As a child I recall my Mom calling my

Dad { who was a Taurus } demeaning names too.

I am sure that all Virgos are not abusive but I am wondering if they are more prone to this than some of the other signs.

Finally when i just had all i could take of this I told my husband that we had to get help because being a Firey Aries the only way I learned to deal with his insults and hollering was to send some right back.

So we did go to a Marriage Counselor and since we are both Christians he suggested that we look up scriptures in the Bible that give advice on communication and also dealing with anger.

This did help and for over a year he toned down his anger and tried to express himself civily and we have had a good measure more of peace in our home.

Just last week though it started up again but this time he actually apoligized after speaking rudely to me and that is unusual because before he would always act like I was being overly sensitive when I would say he hurt my feelings.

So I am still hoping we can work it out. ...

Point is though, most Virgos I think really do need to learn that if you think you have to say what is on your mind, at least learn some tactfulness and consideration for other people's feelings.

Aries are often a bit blunt too and i have had to learn to tone down impulsive speeking also.

Fortunately I have mercury conjunct venus and moon in Pices that has helped me.

My husband's Sun is in Virgo conjunct Neptune so the inspiration from scripture was a good idea for us..