Still wondering if anyone has any insight for me?

Hi paulaj,

I posted something to this on the other thread we were chatting on.

I gave my Cancer male a choice. It was a long time coming. I had to tell him how I felt, how he was makin me feel with his actions, and the two paths tha I was comfortable with. I was pretty matter of fact with it, I didnt sugar coat it, gave it to him straight. He wanted to actually talk about it. We did for a minute but I brought it back to the choices. 1- he pulls his head out of his ass, realizes i am the one for him and we get seriious about dating. No more 'just friends' BS. 2- We sever all ties. We stop communicating. As long as he can not tell the boundaries of platonic and romantic, it gets too confusing to me.

He has chosen to leave me alone. He will call me froom time to time because we have a money issue to resolve between us, but that's it. It's a clear change and I am glad he finally made a choice, it's just not the one I was hoping for. LOL

I hope that helps, just a little? Good Luck. Let us all know what happens.

rudygreen: LOL You know, I can totally go with that if he wasn't so undecisive about where he lies with relationships.

paulaj: my Cancer has left me alone. I laid it out for him. I told him we are either 'just friends', which i am OK with or we cant talk so much. He has chosen the not talk so much route.

I hope you all are going good with your Cancer men/women?

Just wondering if anyone has any info on this?

paulaj: He introduces me to everyone as his 'friend' but I get invited to things and am treated like I am someone more than a friend to him by his mom and dad. We used to always hang out and do everything together. For a while we were inseperable. We have actually stopped all hanging out at this pint. It's been about 6 months since I have seen him.

MariaRia: I get what you are saying. He and I have been close, although not sexual, and he still thinks it's what "just friends" do. Yet he calls me his 'friend'. Frustrating to say the least.

I've been married for 8 years to a Taurus Male, the last year of which we have been separated. Just a month ago we have been in counseling trying to work things out.

He is very passionate, I mean VERY. He is incredibly sexually vigorous, which is attractive to my Aquarius sun. He has a temper and is aggressive and stubborn, which is opposite my Libra moon. He also is generous, happy and a very good protector, which is attractive to my Cancer rising. He has an Aries moon and Leo rising. I have to guess on the Leo rising cuz he thinks he was born after lunch around 12:30pm.

Can someone help me and tell me what's up here?

Wow. From what I have read of everyone's encounters with a Cancer Male, it sounds like you ALL are dating my friend.

He is a serious Cancer Male, in that everyone has to be his friend. No relationships or girlfriends, just friends. That's it. So we are just friends. And when he wants to be a little physical with me, I tell him this is not what "just friends" do. He gets all upset and doesn't understand why not.

How about your Cancers?

For me right now it's all about getting back on track with my life. My health, relationships in love and career all seem to need attention right now.

Darn it. I just found this group. I make horror movies. You can check out PocaHauntus on Netflix. Does that count as creative?

There is no way I am a capricorn. Aquarius all the way. But this is VERY interesting indeed! Why haven't we changed to this method?