So you guys all are telling me to just ignore him, move on, live my life, until he gets back?
Or should I do anything to make him change his mind?
Thank you very much for sharing.
@Redgemini, my Gem man is very much similar to yours. Interestingly i was seeing him for 3 weeks then he got scared that we were going to commit something and it might hurt if we break up later, blah blah~ He also said that he never loved anyone truly, and he was afraid of doing the same to me which he never knows if he would. (He is not sure about his own personality!)
I've moved on but really i know i'm not over him.
We were too good together.
He has moved on too, or just seeing another person.
Also, i emailed him 1 day after we broke up, telling him that i feel comfortable with the break-up, and will move on, hope the same to him, and let's be friend,... in a very good manner and choice of words which i believe he could feel the same way. But he never sends me a reply. And i thought he's very immature for not replying, and for not saying hello when we met at the bar accidentally.
Somehow i don't think he would come back. He would think a lot about pride, i guess.
@worthy1248: Yes i'm new to Gemini, this is my 1st time. I really think he's immature.
I've been through the similar situation.
I'm Aquarius and the guy is Taurus. He's 1 year older than me.
Trust me, it's not a good match even if u try to make it up.
Taurus and Aquarius approach life very differently.
Taurus tend to keep the relationship of the two. While Aquarius is extrovert and outgoing, they belong to the whole society.
My Taurus was kind, sweet, he gave me security and great deal of care, which is good at first but then became annoying. Well it wasn't that bad and i appreciated it very much, i did. But problem is, he cares without knowing how to care. He wants to understand me without being able to understand.
I may disappoint you by saying this, but Taurus can'[t keep up with Aquarius, to the level of conversation, thinking as well as action.
I've found my Taurus guy was too simple, and that turned me off.
Simply because we're different. Worse, completely different.
In conclusion, the characteristics are just completely conflict.
The only thing we have in common is the attitude of taking care of love.
But you know, that can't be enough.
Move on, my dear! For all the better.
And one thing for sure you may count on him is that: if you give him space after the break-up and emailing him a very nice goodbye showing you guys can be friends, he would appreciate a lot. Then comes the right time, you guys can be friends again.
Aquarius appreciate the good in people and remain friendship with their ex.
5 days ago, when i broke up with a Gemini, my 1st love (my ex) came to me and we had a great chat and drink. The ex are my best friends.
Yesterday I came to a bar and found my Gemini guy sitting with another girl.
He was kinda confused when he saw me walking in. I ignored them and continued to my table.
And they two disappear a few minutes after i sit down in the corner of the room.
I wanted to remain friends as the nature of Aquarius.
But now i am confused...
What kind of guy he is...
I believe me and my Gemini guy are a very good match.
But somehow his thoughts about his previous relationships and obsessions covers his mind and he won't take the chance to love again.
I don't know one thing they say about Aquarius: cool, detached, aloof. Actually i believe so in most situation, but when it comes to love, i prefer a very close and sweet relationship.
And for these 3 days i've been struggled a lot, unfortunately i've shown my weakness and out of control, which added more reasons for him to put an end for us.
I know i was just out of my way for these few days. And it was mistakes. The situation would be different if i stayed cool...
We said goodbye yesterday, "stay friends" was what we said to each other but i dun have feeling that he's gonna be a friend as nothing happened before.
I need an advice.
I want him back.
Or at least I want him to be my close friend, which seems hard on him.
Any Gemini man or anyone who experienced Gemini men, please help me answer the question:
Is Gemini the sign of zodiac who will by any chance come back to his girlfriend after breaking up? And what can i do to bring him back?
As to me, Aquarius, i remain good friends with my ex boyfriends but never think of getting back together in a love relationship.
@AriesPiscesCusp: Thank you for sharing.
But what i don't understand is that they broke up 5 months ago and he says he doesnt even know if they were truly in love. So he should have no reasons for holding onto the ex-es, right?