Ladies my advice is run!!!! Don't hesitate, forget about them!!!! Hope you take the time to read my 20 year struggle being married to a gemini man who has been unavaiable emotionally over the years and unfaithful.
I so associated with the Minnie Pearl on the week gemini man avoided you, sorry for your loss, but trust me this "A" typical behaviour for a gemini men.
Hate to say after reading Kay Aries and Minnie Pearls comments on their Gemini men I would have to agree about their lack the ability to be emotionally available to another human being.
Imagine spending the last 20 years with a gemini man and he behaves this way with you. What a ride it has been. Has been questionable behaviour for years. One neighbor woman showed up at my front door, our toddler in my arms and my daughter in the room, she had the nerve to tell me how my gemini husband propositioned her in exchange for standing up for her in court.
Would come home to find someone had left him his favorite fruit at our door.
My daughter's teenage years were quiet turblent and through it all he kept his distance, provided little to no comfort.
Have been to hell and back with this guy, he is saying the divorce is due to my behaviour, he never looks at himself.
We went in front of the judge to determine temporary alimony because he refused to do the right thing on his own. He stated his weight gain was due to the seperation, he has had a weight problem all his life, but now it is my fault.
He left me after 20 years, he does not speak to me, does not return my calls, texts, or e-mails. I do not know specifically where he lives, only know the county and living with another woman, we have been seperated for 8 months, he replaced me that fast. How does one disappear so quickly, how does one justify this action? Actually they were having an affair, my brother happen upon them due to same athletic intrests. But he blames me for the seperation and eventual divorce. My kids are so upset, but how do I tell them, or my very surprised family, about all the things that he has done over the years?
Again let me stress twenty years and it is the same behaviour you are describing after a few months to a year. They do not grow out of it, nothing changes, it is total detachment. Take my advice, find someone else able to commit and be emotionally available to you ladies.
By the way astrologically Aquarians and Geminis are a good match, look at all the trouble I have had with two who are suppose to be a perfect couple.
Could tell you about "two" other couples in the same boat. Aqurian women, gemini man, man cheated, treated wife like c*ap and now they are divorced as well.
Good luck ladies.