Im an Aqua and my Scorpio just dumped me out of the blue after more than a year... no explanations, no goodbye. He has Always ran hot and cold towards me, or so I felt... He always said it was to keep my interest peaked. He was intense, and very passionate... I'd never known I could feel so alive, or love so deeply until I met him. He seemed to get a thrill out of playing mind games with me. -I'm a pretty typical Aqua in that I base almost everything from a logical standpoint and he said more than once he loved to mess with my head. I fell into a pattern of playing along with his games, it was painful and yet intensely pleasurable and exhilarating.
It got to a point where I told him if it was ever more than a mind game, or one of his tests to prove I loved him... That he just needed to tell me in a direct manner that he was through and no longer interested.
Everyone knows Scorps are moody and go between intensely withdrawn and outgoing behavior... I spent the better part of the last year trying to figure out the game and play by the rules. Apparently, and Scorps, I'd love an answer lol... their are no set rules? They change on the fly??
So, we got into a habit... he would want to be intensly close, then pull away and turn cold and distant... I got in the habit of pursuing him when he did that... he would come back and we would both get uh, rather intense with each other... then same thing over again.... over and over...
I wish I knew this last time around if he was just playing another game, or if he really is finished. Im still in love with him, although Im a bit afraid of him now, so much pain in the last few months... We've spoken and "hung out" twice since he summarily "dumped" me back in July. He lives a distance away and has the whole time, but we made it work. Around the time he dumped me, his young adult niece had just moved in with him (yes it's really his niece lol, met her and her mom before ) He also has had a roomate since mid spring. I don't know if I've literally been replaced in his immediate attentions, if I should wait, or totally give up on him. I'm not one to fall easily in love so Im not in a big hurry to replace him...
SO please, any, and I do mean ANY insight is not only welcome but needed.
His bday 11/17/63