Thank you for the insight, I have considered every word you write and no, I would not get involved with a man that is not free. Neither is he the kind of person who would cheat like that (I know him well enough to understand the kind of character he has). As we haven't discussed his intentions, this is the next thing on the list... We will meet tonight and I will be firm, making sure that I do get my answers with regards to the purpose and results he's expecting since he confessed his love. He has never promised to leave his wife but I get the feeling that he was on his way out of that marriage even before our "situation" begun to materialize. I believe that I am old enough to not be naive and trust me, I have used my head to run this over in absurdum. Hence turning to gut and heart now. If you have any more thoughts, please let me know. Have to admit I am a bit nervous...
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RE: Reading - is my gut right?
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Dangala, many thanks for your post and for being so straight forward. I will meet with him tomorrow and will get back to let you know how this develops. My only hope is that he has enough of a spine to tell the truth - he has never lied before, not during the five years I have known him. But as you say, it could all be smoke and mirrors and honestly, I am too old to be fooling or be fooled around with... and should know better.
Reading - is my gut right?
Hi! I am new to this forum and want to ask if anybody could offer a reading of some sort on my situation? I am in love with a married man who loves me but we still haven't talked about the future, plans, intentions and so on. We are having what one might call a "mental" affair, nothing physical has happened between us given his situation and given that we have a lot of respect for each other. My gut is telling me to wait for him as he could be the ONE. Am I fooling myself?
Advice for single Aquarius and married Virgo
Dear friends, if anyone has an idea on how to sort this out, please, please let me know! I have worked together with this married Virgo man for 5 years and we know each other very, very well. We have an amazing relationship where trust and mutual respect is the foundation. I never considered him as anything else but a colleague, but a couple of months ago, after having a dinner meeting (we've done this often!), he told me he loves me! It woke my heart and I realized that I have feelings for him too but considering the situation (so inappropriate!), I chose not to go into any details or confront him further. It is unthinkable for me to start a relationship with a married man, however, my feelings are strong and I realize we need to talk about his intentions. We have decided to meet and facing this meeting, I ask your advice on what would be the best approach. The man I know is a very loyal, considerate, analytical, helpful and warm person - but I am afraid that he might be willing to say anything to keep me on the hook (especially after reading other forum threads discussing Virgo men). This is not a cheater and he has not insinuated physical intimacy... Also, he has mentioned that there is no love left in his marriage. How do I know if I can trust that he's telling the truth? Or is he just looking to satisfy his ego by pursuing me?