Im an Aqua and I agree with all the other Aqua's, people tend to think that aquarians are not emotional but believe me deep down inside I can feel just as strongly as any Cancer if you mean something to me. When dealing with strong emotions I wouldn't show it with you but if you take the time to notice I will always give my all to make you happy and loved. For me I tend not to show my emotions as I do have a fear of rejection like any other.
There are some fairly noticeable differences between the Aqua/Cancer combo, I tend to be more direct in my expressions and what I'm thinking and sometimes this may hurt a Cancers feelings, this is not intentional I just want to let you know that I have nothing to hide and I'm wanting to be honest from the get go. I'm sort of seeing a Cancer man and a year before meeting him I was being persued by this guy which I lost contact with and totally forgot about. One night I received a random text from this guy and I told him straight that I wasn't interested and that I have a new bf, I thought I should let my cancer know this as I don't like to hide things and he just went beserk and cut me off just like that....for an Aqua that's just ilogical because if it was reverse I would not give it a second thought because he told me about it....ever since he has held this against me, I'm not saying that I hold this against all Cancers because it comes down to the man himself and his past and upbringing. Where I have found with my Cancer that he is very indirect in his approach with me and his feelings which I find very confusing because I just don't know where I stand with him. I understand that Cancers need their space because hey I'm exactly the same, all I'd like is for you to come out and tell me "babe I'm feeling outta sinc, I just need time on my own" and I'll give it but I'll let you know I'll be there when you come back from where ever it is you retreat to. I was attracted to my cancer for him being such a cancer, the fact that you can make a woman feel amazing, that you are so dedicated to family and your relationship are a huge plus for me because family & friends are so very important to me. I'm very secure in myself and don't need constant reassurance that you find me attractive or question why you are with me like my cancer man. Looks and Money are not so important to me, if you can stimulate me mentally that's far sexier to me coz if I say I'm with you and I tell you I love you I mean it and there will be no one else in my mind but you. I don't believe in just hooking up with someone for just the sake of it or to just have a good time....I think it would be a waste of my time and yours. I can be the most amazing supportive partner if given a little bit of space when I need it and an open honest relationship. Never ever lie or get caught out in a lie because I find that very hard to forgive, I sometimes think that my cancer tells me things as not to hurt my feelings but if you're honest to me I will forgive just about anything. I have so many friends and I love to talk to anybody and everybody and just make people feel special and I think my cancer finds this hard to understand because he finds it hard to let people in where I can meet a stranger on the street and basically get their whole history in a matter of minutes!!! If we're out and about together I'll be the one with a crowd of people around me happily laughing and chatting and even though I sometimes like the attention my man being comfortable will be my first priority. And I do like to be around lots and lots of people I just as much love being on my own either holed up in my room reading a good book or just listening to music...sometimes I can drop off the radar for months and then I'll resurface as if I'd never been gone and only my family and a handful of very close friends will accept this about me....because they know that at the end of the day I'm the most loyal, supportive and non judgemental friend you could ever ask for, if you need me I will drop everything to be there for you...friends are just about as important to me as family actually I would consider them to be family.......I love the fact that I am the way I am and wouldn't change it for anything, I just wish my Cancer would understand that even though I may not act like how he want's doesn't mean I don't feel and love him less than he does me.
Sorry if this has sounded all over the place and I hope this has given you a little insight into another Aqua's pov......we love passionately, feel strongly and try to understand everything that makes you unique..........I will always find Cancers an enigma and I will only think of the positive parts of my Cancer as he has enriched my life in so many ways, yes he drives me absolutely insane but I just can't seem to leave him alone!!! So Motocrab even though you think we don't care about you we wouldn't be with you if we didn't care 100%