@vettech78 if a man is still unsure after 9 years of relationship then I must say he is not worth it. 9 years is a very long time. He is a man child. Leave him and spare yourself from further heart ache. He will never commit as he is still living in his past or may be he has some other plans which doesnot includes you. You are not getting back those 9 years you have wasted on this man child.

@tuliplilly Hope you get well soon.

@tuliplilly Hope you get well soon.

@phiner79 Hello I am a newbie too. Still getting familiar with this site.

@tuliplilly Cancer men can be sensitive to their own feelings but at the same time they can be insensitive to other peoples' pain and suffering. I have dated 2 cancer men in my life and their pincers were too painful to handle. I am an aries and a very straight forward person. No drama here but they were completely my opposite and you know both of the relationships ended badly. It was really hard for me to communicate as they were so selfcentered and so mean sometimes. Saggies are free spirited and are open minded people I know because my husband is one. You must have tons of patience to deal with big cry baby cancer man. Give him lots of space and if he really loves you he will surrender himself to you. Do not ever push him.

@tuliplilly Is he a cancerian man? If so then I must say it's very hard to deal with them. They are some moody and sensitive bunches. You being a fire sign will be much harder. There will be misunderstandings and lack of communication. Give him space. Let him come to you.

@aurapure Lol the thread is still alive we all can see but you never ever addressed the active members of this thread you just targeted Jenever7, who was probably active longtime ago. Calling names? You must be kidding lol. That's why you were calling Jenever7 a mistress with out being in her shoes, quite judgemental and I am the one here calling names? cool. Yes energy sure travels I can see that. I suggest you to read the whole thread before jumping into conclusions hon. Good night.

@aurapure This thread is 10 years old. The lady who created this thread is long gone. Lol are you really that naive to talk to Jenever7? She never posted again or updated about her situation. Infact all the ladies who were active 10 years ago on this thread is gone now. Who you talking to?

@rammar02 sounds complicated.

@vettech78 if a man is still unsure after 9 years of relationship then I must say he is not worth it. 9 years is a very long time. He is a man child. Leave him and spare yourself from further heart ache. He will never commit as he is still living in his past or may be he has some other plans which doesnot includes you. You are not getting back those 9 years you have wasted on this man child.