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dear myna,

I feel you are going from one relationship to other and not realising what you really want and depending on a relationship to answer your questions. Do you always need a relationship to make you feel whole?

I feel you jump from one to other and always looking for them to fulfill your life is this wise? What about your growing spirit as I know you are questioning what is at the momment.

You feel lost and not sure where to go and in the mean time fall into another persoons arms. You need to spend time by yourself to see what you really want without depending on other peoples opinions.

You appear lost to me and not sure where to go. The way you are going is not the right choice and you need to spend sometime feeling who you are.

Are you lost for some reason. I feel you have lost your way and need to gain your self confidence and be yourself if you have ever gained this. I am not trying to be harsh but some people take longer to find themselves ha others and allow others to guide us even though they maybe inthe wrong direction.

Your question on this site made me realise that you want answers now. So look within to find your beauty and your love and you will find yourself and you maybe surprised at what a strong perosn you really are.

Be strong and find yourself and than make a very sensible decision. Love and light A.

I agree with Yogi with decisions to make but they could be to do with your heart. They maybe decisions you have to make or someone else is involved with the situation. It is usually a choice between two people or two things in life. Challenges are showing you that you are undecided and not sure about what to do even though you could have lots of gifts and have a great future ahead but you are just undecided with your emotions. The foundation card mentions justice and You will win if there is anything going on at momment any law or something that you feel injustice about. You will win because you have done no wrong hopefully as the card says Justice. Lesson is the one that you at swords with someone and it is really getting you down you at logger heads with someone in love or in everyday life. You are not seeing eye to eye with someone and you should be aware of what it is. Should be pretty obvious really.

Your ethics are the wheel of fortune and what you gain one day maybe dashed the next day but the lesson here is that it is ever changing and one day you may feel low the next one will bring another positive feeling that`s just this card.

Your developments is the queen of cups and this is where you are a nurturing type of person to the point of helping others more than yourself. You are liking children and liking to help peple with their problems you are a very caring person and like to build and not destroy any person`s creativity.

This is follwed through on the empress card where you like to nurture the young and help all people that you can. They maybe showing you that you care for others more than yourself. Be careful here you are again putting others before your own needs.

Allies 8 of swords is where you maybe tied to other people that you feel you have to help them and feel tied to this problem. You feel as if you need to help everyone and have no time or energy left for yourself. Advice is to look after yourself and you have the strength to do whatever you want but you sometimes have to push forward to promote yourself and not push the others in the front because you have to look after yourself too.

Long term is the knight of cups and this could be a dark haired young man who is very thoughtful or it maybe you are on the fence and just thinking about your future and just dont know where to go just yet. It is a card of stopping and thinking of which way to go next. That is not a bad thing but I think your life looks really good but you need to focus a little more on yourself and not others for a while. There is a man out there for you. You will meet him soon but it wont be quite how you will see him in the future. He will grow on you somehow. He is and will be around you for the next 5 years and you will eventually marry him but he is not who you thnk it is because there is a catch and only in 5 years you will know what that is. So don`t look cause you wont find, he will come to you in a really funny way and you will be really happy. Good luck. Anne Venus.

Hi cindy

you have experienced a loss but you have also exprienced love in its full glory. I know it must be so hard for you just now. You do have to move on and live your life you know. You may not feel like doing it just yet but you know deep down that you are a nice person and I am sure your parents love you you have no idea what it is like not to have them around. I feel as at the momment you are grieving really badly and unsure and uncertain of your future that is totally understandable because you had made plans for your future and they were taken away from you and you were left alone. You will move on but not straight away and it all takes time to get over a lost one.

Be hapy in the thought you had a good man that loved you very much. My thoughts are with you. A

shrouded heart,

I read from your articles that you suffer from PTSD I can understand why but you may find it interesting to log onto the EFT website with Gary Craig. he has done much work with PTSD patients from vietnam, you can download the tapping technique free. I am an advanced EFT practitioner and I think you could really have help with treatment and finally get rid of him forever in your heart and mind. It is a wonderful therapy and my advice is to download the free tapping technique and start by yourself and if you think you could be interested see a practitioner as they can change your life. I really mean this to lessen the whole trauma business in one session. You will then be free of feeling emotions regarding your trauma and live your life as if it never really had an affect on you. Hope this will help with the PTSD. Anne Venus

Hi its difficult living with a person who has mental health issues I did for 1 year but realised I wouldnt be able to help him either. He got increasingly angrier at my attempts for realising he had a problem. according to him he did not. he was not bi-polar but showed similar traites but was actually suffering from border line personality and a kind of narcissist personality not a good mix. If you go on the internet and put in border personality you will see that they have no recollection of their behaviour or they choose to ignore it. It was a very unusual year with an obsessive personality that would flip anytime unexpectedly and you would be totally unaware that anything was wrong. I did the best thing and got out as soon as I could. It was not easy as they are very manipulative, lying and on the turn of a coin change into a very angry person. These people cannot see they want help I did not stick around to sort out the problem but chose myself a new life which i am now appreciating with peace and more than anything peace of mind.

It is worth looking at the web sites as it sounds a little like that to me. Good luck. and you must put yourself first now as he is now beginning to show signs of unreasonable behaviour.

I will be on the site tommorrow if you want to respond.

Look after yourself. A

sorry correction first recorded cards were made by the above artist for king charles vi of france in 1932. visconti family had theirs painted by bonifacio bembo and he was actively painting from 1447 to 1477.

jacquemin gringonneur 3 packs of cards illustrated in gold and divers colours ornamented with many devicses.

sorry about the repition don`t know why it did that? odd?

ok understand but at some point they have to move on into the light to continue on their path. earth bound spirits are spirits that are either held down by earth people who will use all their energy up to keep them there or have things they want resolved before they move on.. it can be quite exhausting to hang onto spirit. i think you need to look at whose wanting to visit or is there someone hanging on. i have done many movements into the light and the weight that is lifted is incredible. i`m sure you will do this when you are ready and allow your daughter to go to the light so she can continue on her spiritual journey. if and when you are ready family will come to get your daughter and take her to the light. it may be a good idea to give your daughter the option of moving if she wants to and you just let her go. you may not be ready just yet but you have two sons on earth that need you with your full energy and feet grounded. it was really nice to hear that your daughter comes back to you, you are what people will regard as very lucky. hope all will go well with you and your family.

love and light. x

hi, so glad it was some good to you. you sound a lot more positive now and that is brilliant. the cards were very powerful as they always are. they are a treasure and if you know how to read them ithey can help everyone. hope you are starting a wonderful new life. yes i will be continuing being on this site. to your new and adventerous future.

love and light x

ok your son is very intuitive but its effecting his life. ok he needs to do something things to protect himself. he is scared so he is willing these people in every night by his fear. we will turn this around and make him in control of his demons or whatever he wants to call them. i suggest he tells them that they can talk to him when he wants to not when they want to. i know it sounds crazy but you need to clear your house and make sure that he is comfortable with the energy. dont tell him its ok when he doesn`t feel it he will know. get some good sage sticks and do it clear the house. if you don not know how get someone in.

ask him to make a place where these people can go and concentrate real hard so they do not disturb him and he can call them if he wants to. you can help him speak to thm and tell them to keep away. ask them and then tell them that they are no longer welcome in your patch. draw a line around your propery and bring love and light into it. done very simply by making your borders be in the white light. you can do this don`t bother your son he has enough going on.

sit down with him and tell him he needs to speak to them genuinely and tell them to go away and not come back.

how old is your other son does he bring them in? a lot to think about but he needs to be in control the more fear he is showing the more people that are turning up. now let him devise a way to keep these people away because he can. ask him how would things change if he thought about it real hard and make a way to get rid of them he will come up with the answer . listen to him and do it. if he is unsure ask him where he feels safe what smells, textures, anything significant. set it all out as he states he`s the one being harrassed.

it will make him stop believeing so then he will sleep easier. the ideas he comes out with maybe crazy but let him believe it because it will work ,no scoffing at his ideas. tell his brother that he is really upset and let him help him.

make sure there is no rivalry between the brothers or you will have to do the same with him. how are you also do you see spirits have you asked for help from the wrong circles, you could also do the same clearing so you can all sleep very well in your beds. i`m not blaming anyone but you never know who brings them in but the important thing is to keep them out of your home.

or just maybe let them stay outside so he gets a good night sleep.

hope this works if not reply we`ll try something else try first then contact if no good.

love and light xxx

you are going through a lot of grieving at the momment. youre friend was there to help you along you chose not to listen because you are hurting real bad. he came back to see if you were ok and you chose not to go forward into the calm water but wanted to stay in pain of the fire. he was there helping you along you chose to stay still. he is encouraging you to take a leap into faith. the lady was also there to guide you. you will need to put your trust in the living which is the water not the fire which is an ending. he is willing you to go forward with your life but you do not seem to be listening. i know its hard but we must all move on sometimes for our own life. he came back to make you move forward and showed you the way. take any new opportunity you have because i am sure he will put few more positive things to you do not ignore them. there is time to grieve and a time to move on. he was looking after you when you had this dream. love what you had but try to move on he is giving you the push. please take it as your life is for living. we all have dreams and the fire was the pain you felt in his passing but the calm waters are your new life. it will happen again and again until you are ready. now you will understand that there is more to life than just hanging on to things that need to move on. i feel you have suffered so much but help is there and you are not wiling to listen. enjoy your dreams from now on they are a sign and also a clearing from the past hurt. you will sleep better if you understand this message. love and light.

yes indeed i have. when i was trying to deveop myself many moons ago i asked someone to guide me to show me the way. i was directed into a park and met a dark monk this meaning a monk with a cowl and he would not show his face. i felt frightened even though i also felt very calm. he told me or i felt he told me all would be well. i was going through a bit of a crisis in my life at the time and needed guidance. he told me others would come to help me and not to worry i was on the right path. since then i have been intrigued my monks but feel safe and feel it was my was a guiding spirit to help me along my much needed opening path. wow i forgot all about that until i read your message. maybe its a reminder for me too. since you mentioned it and i now recall it was my first real encounter with the bygone spirit world. is he the first contact ? i don`t know but i thank you for making me recall this and i bless you for bringing it to my attention. at the time i felt my life was in such a turmoil and i worried over my kids and he seemed to ease my mind. thank you again you have made me recollect some of my earlier experiences.

love and light to you and all you know.

hi you`ve done a lot of homework for this site. Only flicked through but impressed so far. keep up the good work.

ok first card hanged man.

you have been looking at this the wrong way if you have a change of perspective it may change you to be more positive. this could mean lots of different things. why do you need a soul mate at present do you think they are going to answer all your prayers. what about your ambitions?

you may need to let go of wanting someone to be there for you and find yourself?

let go of these ideals and you well find the person or you may put them on a pedestal and get disappointed and maybe not meet them.

you are struggling with your path in life. are you putting all your luck down to a new person. even though the road is rocky you must carve your own path in life and only then will you know what you really want and desire.

you would love to have children or nurture a new thing. you would love to give all your love to someone so you can make them grow.

ahead of you is a transformation and you cannot stop it from happening it is for the better good. so if it gets tough for a while it is for a reason. it may make you look at life in a different way or it may shake you from the roots and make you do so. it is all for your good believe it or not. its the new you being transformed from who you are now.

once you get over the shaking and insecurities you will have a new feeling to your life and be able to move on and see things differently. find yourself before you find your sould mate!!!!

hi i have been intuitive for years. the odd one out or just different. you feel things and just know whats going down before they come to the surface. i am a reike master and feel peoples problems when i touch them. very frightening for them. i now use psychometry with my tarot readings (reading anything from glasses, to coats, watches etc.) it never fails. i pick up on all sorts of things. but you must learn to close your chakras down once you open them. or you will be feeding every psychic vamp in your near vacinity. this is where you must close down your top chakra and rebalance or you will feel totally wiped out.

have you ever had somebody come up to you and talk to you who are really down and when they leave you are totally shot and they bounce away. you have given away your power to someone else. your top chakra is on the top of your head colour pure white. you must close that before you go out and also do it each day before you venture into your daily life. once you are helping people they will now they will recharge from you. as the hill street blues guy said "Hey be careful out ther". psychic ability should be looked after and nurtured very carefully or it will think you are going crazy. you will see people before you drop off at night and want to help everyone. take your time don`t be in such a hurry it is developing in its own good time. why rush it and get confused and muddled. find yourself a good teacher who knows more than. i had a fantastic teacher joyce allsop and she taught me so much. thanks joyce.

i just lost a whole load of reading for you so i just have to give you a summary as it will take too long to repeat it.

your reading is a positive one so don`t look on the gloomy side of life. you have finally decided to do something about your life in your head but not in your actions. this is a forward move on your part as you are not thinking victim anymore and are looking outside the horrible bubble you have been living in for 20 years. all is not lost even though you have issues about letting go as the unknown fears you as much as what you are living. you do feel that all this is such a burden that you feel you cannot take the pressure anymore. you must make a move because the card crossing you states that you cannot be idle anymore and you have to take action. there will be days that you think that you cannot go on but you know what you want. you have had your heart broken but you have come from that a little even though it is the root of this reading. you are the queen of swords and you must take action and not sit on the fence because the fence is not very nice either. you will swing in and out of indecision in the next few weeks as you will want to keep things ok and be frightened to change things. these could also be associated with money issues. trying to keep the peace and little afraid to see what can be achieved.

you yourself are in a way wanting to keep things quiet and not wanting to upset anything even though you must look at new approaches. you may want to change things but will hang onto things the way they are if you are not careful. frightened of the unknown is a terrible thing but think where you are now. it is a hard decision to move on and the reason maybe due to money and only that. you deserve a little recognition and this what you want. if you do this you will be in the same position in the future as you are now. so look at what you want and what you have not been having. you deserve a better life than this. Families are very forgiving and love you utmost so do not let them make you sit on the fence. you have to do this for you and your self worth.

there is a man in your cards he is fairish and can be brash and loving in the same statement. he can be a bully (negative trait) but be loving as well. he is a leader in his own life and wants everybody to know this. can sometimes not take other peoples feelings into account if he is against you but he can fight for you to the death if he is on your side. two sides to everybody. taken the negative in this case.

your dreams are of nice things you enjoy to be surrounded by nice things, furnishings, house, garden and like nice things. this card also says you can make it alone very succesfully if you look at what your talents are. you can be again who you once were or someone who can go out and achieve anything she wants on her own. you can do it all yourself and have a very good way of looking at a structured approach to your future.

final card says you are a very nurturing person and have always helped people particuarly nurturing young people to see their potential. you like making things nice and enjoy the beauty of things. you have not lost this you just lost your way.

additional cards tell me there is a young person around a bit of a dreamer, very artistic and quiet and loves all things arty and even nature in a way. could be looking for a life in all these sort of areas. you may also find a love soon or a good friend that could help you. there are so many choices with this card you will have to choose which fits you. the young person or a new loving relationship. this card also says you will also start to look at life in a more loving way than you have done of late.

final additional card you move away from the relationship finally and you will finally start to trust your intuition and begin to see your talents and allow yourself to dream again.

something you have been wanting for such a long time.

hope this reading was of some good to you.

i hope you will make the move away from your pain and if you need total support you can call victim support who can be at the end of a phone for you or you could meet for a chat.

victim support number is 0845 30 30 900 i used to work for them and they will listen and help you. let me know what you think of your reading it was very positive from where i was sitting.

Light and love. anne venus.

i think it is attached to what you wore in december or when ever. I think it go tangled up so look at what you wore and it maybe near there or in or on it. hope its of some help. hope it`s in your house.

hi i have been reading cards for over 20 yrs and have been combining this with psychic answers. while i do my personal reading i add in my psychometry which makes the reading a lot more interesting for the person being read. i am a therapist and enjoy helping people with my reiki, nlp, eft, hypnotherapy, regression and my physical therapy of bowen. i have been reading my cards for the public for over 15 yrs and can truly state that it is very enjoyable to ease peoples mind in times of trouble. I like to see myself as a trouble shooter and sort peoples lives. thank you for reading my comments.

one theory is that tarot originated in china where playing cards were definately used before the eleventh centry AD but there is little evidence to support this. Alternatively india is apossible birth place and it is feasible that the fours suits of the minor arcana could refer to the four castes of hindusim the cup to the priests of brahmins, sword to the warriors or kshatriyas, the coins to the merchants of vaisyas, and the rod to the serfs or sudras. major arcana possible links with buddhism the fool could be the wandering monk whose path of enlightenment paralles the path taken by the tarot fool.

first documented appearance of the cards in europe can be traced to 1392 whan a sum was entered in the courtledger of king charles VI of france. a painter jacquemin gringonneru painted pack of cards illustrated in gold and divers colours ornamented with many devices.

1377 brother johannes of bedfeld, switzerland wrote an essay on the cards.

pagan origins on the original cards. that`s why today they are referred to as evil etc.

revival in eighteenth century soem claim it originated in egypt.

nineteenth century french rosicruicia and cabalist eliphas levi stressed links between the twenty letters of the alphabet and the major cards. Tree of life

celtic images also began to appear around 1180 - 1200 which took europ by storm. for the updated version of tarot from 1440 to 1983 you can get the information from cynthia giles`s book tarot the complete guide isbn no.070905095X hope this was of some help to you. anne venus