"Stumbled" across this forum topic and was amazed to find so many fellow-crabs in the same predicament as me. Turning 51 at the end of the month, separated for the past two years ... fled from a "safe" but stifling marriage, chucked-in my job at the beginning of this year. One crisis after another, but growing and still fascinated by life's challenges AND taking them on, in spite of the usual cancerian highs and lows.
Am encouraged to discover that I am not "alone". Crabs do not ever want to let go, yet are obviously propelled to do just that. So, let go and move-on!