Hi im leo woman, been seeing my Gem man for 6 months now. We met online and went on date to a bar where we spent talking all night. Its a bit boring, i thought i will not see him again but he text me the next day and since then i start noticing his presence suddenly into my life. We spent a great 6 months together, its happy memories although when it comes to sex i never really have sexual satisfaction. He seems off, or maybe not into me or i think because he has been through some depression, sex is no longer on his mind which i understand. Apart from that, i always feel like he’s more above me, gem man is so intelligent and they just naturally smart and thats what i like abt him. I asked him why you still stay with me because i feel our relationship is soooo boring and i know gemini cant stand that. He just said i dont know. We’re pretty commited to each other, pretty exclusive but he left 2 months ago to work in his hometown so its like LDR thingy. He cry in our last night together because he deals with that emotion and we kept connected ever since. A week ago something happen in our chat and i ignore him for 2 days. We argue a bit and i call him and clarify the situation whether he want to be with me fully committed or not otherwise im not gonna invest my time in him just chatting via whatsapp and skype on the weekend. I tend to push others away with my Leo soul and i finally said i wanna cut it of with him which i regret later on because i miss him so much. This fun side and caring and being sweet to me attracts me day by day. Hes not that typical of womanizer but i do know he has a lot of friends opposite sex and possibly chatting online with others too.
I told him its too much for me to talk to him everyday without me knowing where we going. He offers to decrease our communication but still
Keep connecting. Hes so afraid that i will block him on all access but im
Not that type of person. Two days ago we connect again, he texted me and chat a bit but i sense that he change into this flat and cold person unlikely. He stop being the fun and happy chappy texter, maybe because now he doesnt respect me?? Or the twin has finally out. I feel like im tired but theres an urge in me saying just try and put more effort because i completely never done anything to make him feel loved or cared. I never text him first, i ignore him because he’s being rude and miscommunication happens.
What should i do, can i text him back or should i text him by joking around or start texting in a serious way or what should i say to him? Helppp me understand more about Gem.. i dont wanna give up on this Gem just yet. Thanks guys

@thecaptain Thanks captain for the advice. Really appreciate this very helpful advice. It sounds like a lot of hard work and massive efforts needs to be done in order for us to happen and stay in a healthy relationship Long distance.
The current situation - however - we are not really talking anymore like as we did 2 weeks ago. We chatted intensely, my morning - his evening, and the other way around, send pictures, video chat and such. Communications were really good, meanwhile I with my Leo soul always have drama on little thing.

I pulled myself away from him and that has made him consider "yes, it might not be best to text a lot but doesn't mean we are disconnected somehow." I am now taking it so slow since he doesn't have any stable ground for himself. Meanwhile I know what I want.
On the other side, I don't want to give up on him yet, I want to understand him more, It's challenging for me, this is my first healthy relationship ever and he has shaken my entire world ever since he stepped in. I learn how to compromise and just following him through with his moods ( he indeed is the boss in our relationship which I take as positive influence since I was always the control freak in my previous relationship). It's very challenging situation for me right now since I always been the princess, I learn a lot to manage my ego, be more mature about relationship, manage my patience and understand him while I suffer in silence. I hope I can cope with it and if I'm not, then I probably let it go entirely.
Thank you for the advice tho!

Hi Gem Squad, can someone just enlightened me about Gemini’s personality, traits, and their action when their in love with someone or when they state that they wanna be with you, when they said we’re in relationships, what does it mean? I find it’s highly difficult to get to know this Gem’s mind and look inside or at least understand what his intention and what he wants. Other times he’s overly sensitive and everything I said offend him easily. He seems very resentful and when I try to bring this up, he either shut me down or I need to wait til both of us calm, I’m a fire sign Leo who craves attention and ignorance is a no no but I compromise a lot to this relationship, understanding him and we are in longdistance relationship, even worse. Can someone just enlighten me?? Thanks a lott

@jayann I don’t understand what is this? Can you explain more please?

@thecaptain Thanks captain for the advice. Really appreciate this very helpful advice. It sounds like a lot of hard work and massive efforts needs to be done in order for us to happen and stay in a healthy relationship Long distance.
The current situation - however - we are not really talking anymore like as we did 2 weeks ago. We chatted intensely, my morning - his evening, and the other way around, send pictures, video chat and such. Communications were really good, meanwhile I with my Leo soul always have drama on little thing.

I pulled myself away from him and that has made him consider "yes, it might not be best to text a lot but doesn't mean we are disconnected somehow." I am now taking it so slow since he doesn't have any stable ground for himself. Meanwhile I know what I want.
On the other side, I don't want to give up on him yet, I want to understand him more, It's challenging for me, this is my first healthy relationship ever and he has shaken my entire world ever since he stepped in. I learn how to compromise and just following him through with his moods ( he indeed is the boss in our relationship which I take as positive influence since I was always the control freak in my previous relationship). It's very challenging situation for me right now since I always been the princess, I learn a lot to manage my ego, be more mature about relationship, manage my patience and understand him while I suffer in silence. I hope I can cope with it and if I'm not, then I probably let it go entirely.
Thank you for the advice tho!

@thecaptain 11 aug 1990, 19 june 1989

Hi im leo woman, been seeing my Gem man for 6 months now. We met online and went on date to a bar where we spent talking all night. Its a bit boring, i thought i will not see him again but he text me the next day and since then i start noticing his presence suddenly into my life. We spent a great 6 months together, its happy memories although when it comes to sex i never really have sexual satisfaction. He seems off, or maybe not into me or i think because he has been through some depression, sex is no longer on his mind which i understand. Apart from that, i always feel like he’s more above me, gem man is so intelligent and they just naturally smart and thats what i like abt him. I asked him why you still stay with me because i feel our relationship is soooo boring and i know gemini cant stand that. He just said i dont know. We’re pretty commited to each other, pretty exclusive but he left 2 months ago to work in his hometown so its like LDR thingy. He cry in our last night together because he deals with that emotion and we kept connected ever since. A week ago something happen in our chat and i ignore him for 2 days. We argue a bit and i call him and clarify the situation whether he want to be with me fully committed or not otherwise im not gonna invest my time in him just chatting via whatsapp and skype on the weekend. I tend to push others away with my Leo soul and i finally said i wanna cut it of with him which i regret later on because i miss him so much. This fun side and caring and being sweet to me attracts me day by day. Hes not that typical of womanizer but i do know he has a lot of friends opposite sex and possibly chatting online with others too.
I told him its too much for me to talk to him everyday without me knowing where we going. He offers to decrease our communication but still
Keep connecting. Hes so afraid that i will block him on all access but im
Not that type of person. Two days ago we connect again, he texted me and chat a bit but i sense that he change into this flat and cold person unlikely. He stop being the fun and happy chappy texter, maybe because now he doesnt respect me?? Or the twin has finally out. I feel like im tired but theres an urge in me saying just try and put more effort because i completely never done anything to make him feel loved or cared. I never text him first, i ignore him because he’s being rude and miscommunication happens.
What should i do, can i text him back or should i text him by joking around or start texting in a serious way or what should i say to him? Helppp me understand more about Gem.. i dont wanna give up on this Gem just yet. Thanks guys