I've been in a relationship with a Gemini for almost 2 years. And yes, I love him so very much.
I realised that our relationship have started to take a turn for the worse.
We have been arguing a lot recently.
Reason being, he started to showed me very little care and concern these few days. We would meet less often, maybe once or twice a week?
He always complains he's tired and we would end the day just like that.
His calls have lessened, sometimes just once a day? He takes ages to call me back. I would see him using his phone all day and get distracted.(he said it is for work)
Trust issue? I don't know.
And everytime we argue, he won't get what I'm unhappy about and that would lead to more arguments. Its like he is in his own world?
But he did tell me that he loved me so much and he wondered if I love him back?
He told me he wanted this relationship to work out and us to focus on work so we will have a better future and not worry about money and be able to afford everything we need and want.
He said once he made money he will pamper me with gifts and bring me out for an extravagant dinner and shopping. I was thrilled obviously.
But time and again, I would see him messaging girls saying that he wish to know them more and would give out his msn.
Once I find out, he would stop messaging the girls again. Is this a good thing cause he is listening or should I be more wary?
Sometimes he calls them darling and he said it was for fun, just disturbing.
He said 'I may be a bastard but i'm not cheap, you don't know me well enough.', he said he only loves me and maybe his mistake is that he is too flirtatious(cyberly) and overly friendly.
When I asked him what was this about? He said it was nothing and kept saying that he wasn't guilty about anything and that I was thinking too much.
Sometimes I would wonder what is this Gemini thinking? Why is he so flirtatious?
I realised that he can't live without socialising and his friends but everytime he goes out, he would be afraid of my reaction and that causes him to hold back a bit.
He have not cheated on me but keeps messaging girls on facebook secretly? What is this about?
Is this how a Gemini should be like?
I can't understand him at all. I'm helpless!
Should I give up on this relationship or still fight on?
I've heard that we both are total opposites in terms of our horoscope.