Hi Watergirl18 !! Sorry this is the first that I could get back to you. Thank you for replying. Things have been truly hectic in my life and I understand where you are coming from but this leaves me in a financial dilema. Out of work and kind of between a hard rock and a cliff. We did have a major blow out where he threatened to leave , told him go ! That lasted four hours. If I knew what to do about finding a job etc. I would probably leave in a heart beat. If you pick anything up in the cards let me know? Thank you Again Angelprayer