Hello Firefly. I would first like to say how generous of spirit you are to give help to so many people! I hope that one of us can help you back someday if you need us to. I know I would certainly try!

Anyhow, I would like an answer to a question if that is ok?

Just recently I have been experiancing detrimental circumstances in my job and am at the point of losing my job due to some fault of my own (I think) as people there are so deceptive and I have never really been accepted. I have been there two years and things are coming to a head. I have tried to take remedial action before but the effects are only temporary. People are not really willing to help me if I need it (we are supposed to be a team) I have been left to cope in soul testing cicumstances but have worked hard and done my best in difficult circumstances. I know losing my job may be a blessing in disguise but now I find that I don't really want to continue in another job of the same kind (although I don't have that option yet)! I was wondering if the cards could give you some indication of the direction I should take or in what vocation I should aim or train for? I just have to mention that I am the sole breadwinner in my household and don't really have any financial backup to help in the future. This is worrying me obviously and is motivating me to get another job of the same kind which will take up all of my free time so that I cannot train for any other vocation. I have been unhappy for a long time about this aspect. I thank you so much for your help and hope I may be able to help you in the future! Love and light, B.

Hey Kaydenjay, I think there is some one new waiting for you to free yourself from this struggle with your current relationship, do you know what I am talking about?

Hope you find some comfort also, love and light, B.

Hey Lovinmylife, I think you have made the right decision as your new boyfriend sounds like a decent guy who is besotted with you and there aren't many of those around! He would be distraught if you decided to go back to your previous guy. I am sure in time that your feelings for your guy you are with now will deepen, not the same as with the ex, but they will deepen none the less, and may probably surprise you along the way.

Maybe the reappearance in your life of your ex is a test of some kind to help you understand that a relationship with your ex would (although have intense feelings) never be the way you wish it would. This may be a test to help you realise this so that you can move on with your life. I think also that you may have come to a decision in your unconscious mind already.

I hope you find some peace of mind, we are all rooting for you! luv, B.

Hey cancerfunnygirl, I know exactly what you mean, I think you are an Emphath, you can see peoples souls, or feel them anyway. Also when you see or hear thoughts without people actually speaking I think this is just a way for you to understand what is really going on in their heads, as you do have a lot of intuition and imagination also. I sometimes see just peoples heads in my dreams. these people are from all walks of life and expressing all sorts of emotions, laughing, crying, sad, happy, scared, even malicious sometimes. There have been so many of them, but I have never met any of them in real life and always wondered who they were and where they were from.

I am not a cancerian, my sun is in aquarius but my moon is in cancer. Anyhow I also noticed that sometimes what other people were feeling were not my feelings but theirs. The only way I can get back to myself (as you would surely need to do for your own peace of mind)! is to try and keep grounded somehow by maybe visualisation techniques. Try to walk somewhere on the earth in bare feet, feel the earth beneath your feet and release tension and negative energy through breathing exercises. Take in white light as you breath in and exhale negative energy as you breathe out. I think all of us have guardian angels near us at all times so ask yours for help and protection, then listen for the answer (which may come to you as a feeling to do something or an idea).

I hope this helps you. Love and light, B.

Ps. I have found bursts of game playing on the pc helps also! Helps me get back to me! Good luck.

Hey Lovininmylife, sorry to see that you are in a perplexing situation right now, I can't believe I'm reading this as almost the same thing is happening/has happened to me! Also with a Cancerian guy! You obviously know the story... Soul mate, loads of love and deep feelings, feeling that you have been together before also as well as meant to be together now... My guy also loved me but wouldn't give me the comittment I needed, he broke promises, dates ect. but on family occasions (his side) I was always expected to be there and he always took me to them. I was smitten and angry as he would always scuttle off into his shell again soon after. We were also very close friends and it should have been easy for him to share his emotions with me. Anyhow, that was years ago and I eventually broke the pattern by breaking it off suddenly (after he didn't show up for a date) and always wonder if I did the right thing cos' I started seeing somebody else out of anger! I still feel guilty for this today as I know I hurt my cancerian guy badly.

As far as the present goes, I always wondered if I should have stuck it out, even though I was at the end oof my tether as I have never found that kind of relationship since. About ten days ago I searched for him on Facebook and there he was! Even though I think I may have searched for him before with no luck. I couldn't believe it! so I sent him a friend request. In true to form style I have had no response from him as yet!

I can already feel myself becoming frustrated because of the lack of response, this has however enabled me to remember how frustrated he made me feel all those years ago! And I now know that things probably won't ever change, cancerians are the worse at changing lifelong habits (no offence to those who do change habits)! I realise that although the deep feelings are going to be there for this lifetime it doesn't necessarely follow that this is going to be your life partner I guess.

I believe that we incarnate from a soul group and this may mean that others from the same soul family incarnate with us at the same time. Maybe these souls can provide love and comfort on the deepest level possible ( as their energy resonates so easily with ours) but that seems to be as far as it will go, and they always dissappear afterwards. I guess they have their own things in life to learn for the good of the soul group, just as we have.

So, I think you maybe need to try and understand if you want him in your life at any level (or even if you can accept him at any level) as you are (deservedly so) still angry about his lack when you needed him so badly. Maybe cancerian men in particular are uncomfortable with showing their emotions as they may feel that it is not 'manly'. If only they knew that that was what women want from men!

I hope you find some peaceand calm in all of this. Love and light, B.

Hello Laylo, I am sorry you are having such a hard time at the moment. I just wanted to say that as a mother to a son myself, I know deep within my heart and soul that your sons will never let go of their mother, no matter who or what is causing adversity. I believe there is a Karmic tie between mothers and their children and these bonds survive the most difficult of circumstances.

I totally agree with Jenever7's Tarot reading for you, this sums up your situation of having little control at the moment but urges you to look at this in a new way and to focus on building yourself up again so that in the future you are coming from a stronger position. Your sons know in their hearts who you truly are and will not be under your ex's control forever. You need to be there for them in the future as they will need you. I know this is going to take a lot of strength and stamina to progress due to your circumstances now but as Emereaux, Jenever7, Katfoundit and Bente Stoker have already said, you ARE stronger than you know, the future isn't written yet and Karmic justice will come to your ex. Things will change, they always do. I hope you are lucky finding a job as this will bring blessings in disguise as well as the money factor!

Don't forget that you still need to heal all of the hurt you have suffered, the pain needs to be released so that positive energy can take it's place. One method I use is visualisation. In a quiet place, try to still your mind, ground yourself to the earth by feeling your bare feet touching the ground for a few seconds, then feel the energy that fills your body, imagine the negative (hurt) energy as a dark colour and the positive healing energy as a light colour. Focus on your breathing and begin to take in deeper breaths of healing light energy (which comes from the earth), whilst breathing out the negative dark energy (which goes back into the earth to be transformed and healed). Imagine the dark energy becoming displaced and the spaces being filled with the positive light energy until there is no more dark left. Spend some time on this on your first try, as you learn this the process speeds up. If you are religious say a prayer and ask for help and protection from your guardian angel. I hope you can understand this and that it helps you if you try it. I wish you all the love and strength in the world.

Remember also we will always be here for you when you need us. Love and light. B.

Hello! And Thankyou!

Hello! I read a proverb once, (Chinese I think), that says "A cup has to empty itself so that it can refill itself anew again". I guess what I am trying to say is that maybe you are emptying outworn feelings and things that no longer serve you. This process would make you feel more sensitive as it goes on, but soon the energy turns and things begin to fall into place again but in a more positive sense as you become aware of who you are, what you want to become and how this can be accomplished. It appears to be a never ending cycle as nothing stands still for too long as everything is always in a state of development.

I hope that you find some comfort in this and also the fact that others will also experience something like this too. Especially if they are of a sensitive and intuitive nature as you seem to be. I wish you all of the very best and hope that you find your way as I did. God bless, Love and Light, B.

I'm sorry for your distress and hope that the following interpretation helps.

I assume this is a horseshoe spread? I'm not sure as you don't specify the layout you used. Anyhow, here goes... The magician (R) signifies unused/untapped talents or gifts not being constructively used in the present, the Wheel of Fortune bodes a change in growth of circumstances and asks for an overview of the 'Bigger picture', maybe a path into a differant direction. The Emperor is asking for organisation and leadership qualities, putting innate abilities to use in the immediate future which will lead to a new positive and prosperous beginning as signified by the Ace of Pentacles. (remember that this is only the beginning though, but a good start which will progress). The Knight of Swords signifies cutting through adversity and mental blocks, whilst the King of cups (R) backs this up by saying that emotions have become a factor in clouding the real issue. The Tower (R) says that an outworn structure or past order of events have come to an end and urge a change into a new direction.

I sincerely hope that this helps you and yours and wish you luck and happiness. Love and Light, B.