hi guys thanks again for all your feedback...yes he does have anger issues which he told me about..and i did everything i could not 2 upset him..looked after all his little needs...he told me so many times how valuable i wos to him but now it seems it wos all bullshit really..if he really cared he would have made some effort..one of my mates even said i might have been his 1st girlfriend from the way hes acting.

we wernt together for long but when two people just click instantly and get along so well its special...iv done everything i could to not let it end but he just did not want 2 know anything..i know it sounds really stupid and dumb but i really love him alot and wish he would try talking to me. with him i could be myself..i did not have to pretend or by cautious of what he would think of me if i did something stupid..i just wish we would get back together again..but im not making the first move.

hey guys..fank u for all the feedback..its helping alot to be honest. yeh yur right hes definatley got some serious issues...there wos no need to bring up past issues which had nothing to do with our situation..i wos nice to him even when he called me those nasty names..i never lost my temper...i tried my best till the very end..the worst thing is he dint even bother to answer my calls or ring me. he just shut me out of his life as if i never existed. wen i wos trying to explain things to him through txt msgs..he turned round and said "for fuck sakes grow up..wev only been together for 4month..its not like your gona die without me"..he blames me for letting it get to this stage somehow???

i love the guy alot but im not gona be any ones doormat...its been a month since we broke up and he hasnt bothered to ring or txt me or anything..he has got my mates number but he hasnt even txt her or rang her either...i seriously just dont know whats going on in his head, he could atleast talk to me or make some effort..or am i stupid to think like this?

hey guys..ye i did tell him that i would like this relationship to go somewhere..i told him i dont do flings and one night stands..the funny thing is he even told me how he wos going to propose, something which i never asked for..he had told his mum,sister..cuzins and his cuzins wife about me..but i still dint get all happy over it because with guys you just never know..they change like the weather..i never pressured him into anything..he wos very happy being ina relationship which had a future.

all his issue was i dont like these small arguements..they just piss me off..i understood that and dis everything i could not to argue..i even promised him that.. but now it just seems to me that he never cared bout me as much as i did....he just blamed it all on me. i have allowed him now..im not even upset specially after being called cheap and sick and told to fuck off..and i cant guarantee alot of things in life but i can guarantee that he will never find a gurl who will luved, respected, understood and cared for him and his small needs like i did..and im not being big headed bout this either..its a fact which he will realise very soon.

Yes i know what you are trying to say..but it just seems really childsish and immature to end a relationship just because you had a small misunderstanding..i even explained to him what happened that night and what i wos trying to say to him but he just dint wnat to know. all that time i undertood that it was his anger but when he called me cheap, sick, insecure and desperate and dragged in a mate who i liked in the past it made me think no this is just his excuse. but even then i still made another effort to save the relationship by sendind a text sayin we love each other so much so why do these petty and small thnigs even matter..his reply was in short words: fuck off and stay the fuck away from me!!!

btw hes an aries! but now i have seriously allowed him..every effort i made for him..big or small he has thrown it bakc in my face by saying "oh youve done alot init"

hi guys, iv been through a bad time quite recently so thought i would share my thoughts with you and get your opinions.

in december 2008 i met this really amazing guy on myspace..we hit it off in the very 1st conversation, he wos someone i could talk to about anything and everything. we exchanged msn adds and continued talkin, then he gave me his number and we would talk for hours and hours everyday..then 2weeks later he asked me if we could meet up, i wos abit hesitant at first and told him i dont just link up guys just for abit of fun, it has to go somewere and said he understands and he playing me around so we met up on the 27 december. we connected so well it wos unbelievable..we talked and talked about everything, i had never been like this with anyone..time went by really fast and we both went home after. we continues talkin and on january 12 2009 he asked me out and i said yes...then on valentines we linked up and had a great time..this guy wos amazing, so sweet and loving..then few days later we had a small arguement but made up the next morning..then we had about 3/4 more arguement but always made up in a day..we even linked up on his bday on april 14 and i got him a ID bracelet and a card in which i told him even though we argue on small things i always love him..then we linked up on 25 april and had a great time...the next day in the evening we had a small misuderstanding and he told me to got to hell and cut the fone off. the next day he dint ring or text me but did text my m8 and told her what happned and it seemed like it will be ok....later on i text him sayin why he dint ring me after he finished work..somehow it turned into an arguement and he just started having a go at me..then all of a sudden he txt sayin UR DUMPED! i just couldnt believe it..from then on he just dint want 2talk 2me at all..i apologised a million times..he dint answer my calls..dint ring me and told me 2fuk off and he dint wana kno what i had 2say..i tried for 2weeks just tellin him how much i loved him and not to let these small fings get in the way..i even begged him for a last chance but he dint wana know at all.

now i really dont know what to do..this guy told me he luved me and how he would do anything to make this work..we talked about marriage and he said he will make it work..he promised he would never leave me and now he doesnt even want 2talk 2me.