"Moonbeauty. We Scorpio have a hard time letting someone go also when we truly fall in love. On the negative we become possessive and destructive. On the positive we can acknowledge the lost and try to move on. But the mask does go on. In my own situation my ex didn’t let me go emotionally for a next 6 years after we separated. Kept tabs etc. I needed another 9 years to heal. Now I met this guy and I am terrified to let him in. That is separate to whom and what sign he is. What scares me the most is his ability to see right through me. There is little I can hide from him.

To answer your question do we miss people at all? YES WE DO. But it’s scarier to admit that you do and get hurt again. So we don’t show. "

FLOWSCO!! What you said EXACTLY parallels me and my Scorpio guy. When we met he was getting over his high school sweet heart/ex fiance. They did/still keep tabs on each other and all that, so he's still emotionally connected. When he met me we told me he was trying to get over her and move on. He hardly lets me in, but I'm an open book and I see right through him. Haha He knows it, but it scares the hell outta him too. It's so rare he'll open up to me.. but when he does, I know it's the god honest truth. I have a totally new respect for Scorpios now. Honestly. I maybe a Sagittarius, your exact opposite as it would seem, so baffled by what you do, but I love learning from differences, and loving people regardless of our similarities and differences. Peace, love. I'm finally cured from my resentment. You can't hate or hold it against anyone for not seeing from your eyes. And you can't change them. That's how me and my Scorpio sister, and her and her Sagittarius guy became such an unstoppable team. We just respect what's different. Her and her Sagittarius guy worked things out and spent Thanksgiving together. I'm so happy for them! Let love shine.

Hahaha I got the SAME advice. Run away! lol

I'm a Sagittarian woman and I've been playing this SAME exact cat-and-mouse game with my Scorpio guy for around 3 years now... Let me tell ya. Reading up on other Scorpio posts has only proven my every assumption of their sign. CONFUSING. haha Me and him are as different as night and day. I'm positive, he's negative. I'm the light, he's the dark. Sun and Moon. I swear. It seemed to make the most cosmic attraction. So different, but so passionate about the same causes. Where we do meet up, is in the most epic of ways. We confessed our mutual attraction and tried to see how it would go. He seemed to be the epitome of my "perfect man" the more we talked... he just needed to let go of all his pain, and give it over to me, confess it, so I could relinquish it once and for all and fill his pain-body back-up with love and the light of life. We got super close one night and it almost seemed surreal. But he ran away the next day and left me in the dark. When I finally brought it up to him he told me that he wanted to be with me, he just didn't deserve it... He wanted to change, and it melted my heart that he saw that in himself... but I never really saw him try. I tried to move on and, of course, he guilted me into "giving up on him like everyone else". Then when I promised to stay and care for him, it was back to being lost in the dark. Every attempt to help after that just seemed to push him further away...even though he admitted to wanting to change before I saw the need for any. We'd make plans, and he'd bail... more than once. At first he had all these excuses for why he did that to me.. past pain, ect. He'd try to convince me it was him, not me. But after a while, he just stopped apologizing. He stopped caring. I tried to play his game, seem disconnected. I tried to back off and give him space to "figure his **** out" but when he left me in the dark for sooo long, and was jealous of my close relationships (JUST friends) with his friends, he found an ex-girlfriend to bang. I lost it. I could no longer hold in my pain and I exploded on him for feeding me such pretty lies while being so careless, selfish, immature and insensitive. But that's their game. All talk, no action. Haha at least in my experience. Sting you once, kick you out. Then they pull you back in to feed on your pain. It's sad, but true. They like the chase. He wants me when I'm done fighting for him. He tried to guilt me into "ruining his already bad day" by finally speaking out and saying what he already knew about himself and what all his friend's wouldn't dare say. I'm never mean intentionally, but sometimes the truth hurts and can't be silenced. I read this on a post earlier, and I have to agree.. "Scorpios are more ruthless than vulnerable".. but, again, the need for power or to inflict pain on others is just weakness in disguise. So maybe they inflict their own suffering on others? Strangely enough, he never seems more attracted to me than when I "**** him off" or call him out...I think he recognizes it and see's the strength and power in truth. They also love independent women. That's probably why he always wanted me when I wanted to give up and move on, and why he ran away when I chased after him. I still feel like my honest heart, adventurous spirit, positive energy and loving light would do him wonders. He has SO much potential. I know him too well to just walk away...

My oldest sister is a Scorpio as well and me and her used to butt heads and fight every minute when we were younger. Through growing up and discovering our similarities, we've never been closer. We're quite the team. She found herself a Sagittarius, and he's great! They almost divorced because she cheated on him though... only just recently have they been trying to work things out. I hope it does work for them, because they make quite a team themselves. Sag and Scorp relationships always confuse me between being a prefect pair and perfect disaster. But if there's one thing I know... you can't MAKE someone change. You can want it everyday of your life, but never see it. You have to BE the change you want to see in the world and in others. Only then will it start to spread. Just let your light shine, be an example of true, selfless love. The flame will catch on. And when you shine so bright, you attract what really, truly, loves you. Not something that wants to steal and feed off the warmth and love of your soul.

Hope this helps? haha I'm still confused.

I'm a Sagittarian woman and I've been playing this SAME exact cat-and-mouse game with my Scorpio guy for around 3 years now... Let me tell ya. Reading up on other Scorpio posts has only proven my every assumption of their sign. CONFUSING. haha Me and him are as different as night and day. I'm positive, he's negative. I'm the light, he's the dark. Sun and Moon. I swear. It seemed to make the most cosmic attraction. So different, but so passionate about the same causes. Where we do meet up, is in the most epic of ways. We confessed our mutual attraction and tried to see how it would go. He seemed to be the epitome of my "perfect man" the more we talked... he just needed to let go of all his pain, and give it over to me, confess it, so I could relinquish it once and for all and fill his pain-body back-up with love and the light of life. We got super close one night and it almost seemed surreal. But he ran away the next day and left me in the dark. When I finally brought it up to him he told me that he wanted to be with me, he just didn't deserve it... He wanted to change, and it melted my heart that he saw that in himself... but I never really saw him try. I tried to move on and, of course, he guilted me into "giving up on him like everyone else". Then when I promised to stay and care for him, it was back to being lost in the dark. Every attempt to help after that just seemed to push him further away...even though he admitted to wanting to change before I saw the need for any. We'd make plans, and he'd bail... more than once. At first he had all these excuses for why he did that to me.. past pain, ect. he'd try to convince me it was him, not me. But after a while, he just stopped apologizing. He stopped caring. I tried to play his game, seem disconnected. I tried to back off and give him space to "figure his shit out" but when he left me in the dark for sooo long, and was jealous of my relationships (JUST friends) with his friends, he found an ex-girlfriend to bang. I lost it. I could no longer hold in my pain and I exploded on him for feeding me such pretty lies while being so careless, selfish, immature and insensitive. But that's their game. All talk, no action. Haha at least in my experience. Sting you once, kick you out. Then they pull you back in to feed on your pain. It's sad, but true. They like the chase. He wants me when I'm done fighting for him. He tried to guilt me into "ruining his already bad day" by finally speaking out and saying what he already knew about himself and what all his friend's wouldn't dare say. I read this on a post earlier, and I have to agree.. "Scorpios are more ruthless than vulnerable".. but, again, the need for power or to inflict pain on others is just weakness in disguise. So many they inflict thier own suffering. Strangely enough, he never seems more attracted to me than when I "piss him off" or call him out...I think he recognizes it and see's the strength and power in truth. They love independent women. That's probably why he always wanted you when you wanted to give up and move on, and why he ran away when you chased after him. I still feel like my honest heart, adventurous spirit, positive energy and light would do him wonders. He has SO much potential. I know him too well to just walk away. But if there's one thing I know... you can't MAKE someone change. You can want it everyday of your life, but never see it. You have to BE the change you want to see in the world and in others. Only then will it start to spread. Just let your light shine, be an example of true, selfless love. The flame will catch on. And when you shine so bright, you attract what really, truly, loves you. Not something that wants to steal and feed off the warmth and love of your soul.