Hi blmoon, why do scorps run from emotional outpouring when theyre emotional themselves? I sometimes wonder if they secretly like it, knowing they were able to get you to that point.
My issue, i met a scopr male through work. we have to work together, have to deal with each other every day. were in two diff states. in the beginning, we got along great, we took it to another level, on the phone for hours not talking work. Then he pushed back and became super distant, for no reason. I called him on it a few days later, claims he didnt see it that way, moving on, we had 1 pretty big argument over our work/personal relationship, during this argument he asked if this was my way of pushing him away, i ignored it, im a capricorn, ive detached myself, even though we still have to deal with each other, i dont take the bait when he tries to talk about anything other than work, i sound indifferent and probably cold, which just means i care, ive been ignorring his work phone calls also, and taking it to email instead. After yesterday i ignoredhis call, he left no VM, i messenged him re: work instead, he completely ignored my message. I guess this is his way of giving me a taste of my own medicine, my question is, does he still give a crap, im sure they dont like to be ignored and have a need to know everyone, will he still try to pursue our 'friendship', or is this how its going to be. I know he likes me, my biggest hangup is he just wont admit it outright. So if anyone can hypothesize what is going on in his head, thatd be great