Hi Astra,
Much appreciate your interpretation. Gather I wont "stop" by shop, will "run" by - lol. I think all in all, we can all agree with certain aspects of the situation: Decision upcoming, remain cautious/balanced, truth will revealed, continued patience and nurturing will bring about a positive outcome and my desire! Am sticking with that. 
1432 - you got it Pontiac !!
All the best. Has been wonderful chatting. Look forward to another discussion in near future.
Alepou143
Astra, Feel free to chime in on the 5 cards that Daliolite was kind enough to do for me. I may not have understood as well as you would considering my limited years of experience. Regards,
Hi Daliolite, Thank you very much for drawing some cards. My understanding of your interpretation: advises to "hang onto what I have", but exercise caution when making any important decisions. The conservative and moving I believe to be very accurate. Look forward to issues being discussed and the "moving" aspect (whether it mean literally as in residence, as in travelling to meet up, or completing work contract and returning, or that the situation will experience movement). The truth will unfold. Have I understood you correctly?
As you seem to be more versed/experienced in this field than I, may I ask which spread you used or what all positions meant (ie: 3 of wands & 4 of cups address what)?. You mention you added 3 cards to form the wheel of fortune (only 5 total though, not 6 cards) and continued onto an 11 card spread...? Did you begin with the J & J cards and then form an X for a Wheel of Fortune? Or Cross formation?
I am trying to interpret & return feedback based on the 5 cards you provided me. I am quite keen to learn different methods using more complex/thorough use of the 78 cards so any feedback you can provide to clarify, would be wonderful. Other than the Lovers Tree, I am familiar with the Bohemian and Celtic Cross spreads.
If I were to simply take a quick look at the cards you mention, most seem positive except the 4 of cups from my view. However, it depends where they fell in the greater scheme of things.
? 3 wands - Opportunity, remain open and positive, may be successful individual coming
Present/Empress - fulfilment, sensuality, nurture
? 4 cups - Inhibitions, emotional repression, depression/doubt, ongoing relationship needs new approach
Situation/Judgement - rebirth, awakening, fresh start
Challenge/Justice - resolution of a dispute, fairness, in relationship context can refer to "legal" marriage, or a balanced/equal partnership
FYI: My original 5 card display formed a T as shown below. (Lovers Tree)
...2.....3.....4....
..........1..........
..........5..........
Thank you once again Daliolite for your effort, time and input.
Dear Astra ANGEL (perfect name I'd say!)
I appreciate the positive outlook and wishes. You have a valid point, the hardships have well prepared us and we should be able to deal with and overcome almost any future obstacle at this point. He once said that sometimes we need to experience/live through hardship or pain, so that we are grateful for the good times...Makes us more appreciative.
I liked the "bedrock" analogy....as it strikes a cord with us (we work in mining - lol)
Like the two cards so I am off now ....to prepare for his arrival :-). Am sure this time it will work out without further delay.
Have a great evening AstraAngel. Sincerely - Alepou143
PS: Did you take a guess at what the "143" symbolized or meant?
Hi Daliolite,
I felt the reading also pointed out or stressed the distance, past or possible prior hardships but have faith the remaining cards indicate a strong tie, a time of change and progress. Anything worth having does not always come easy.
If not (which I don't see/feel at this time), then it was one long, hard, life lesson.
Thanks again for your input.
Best,
Alepou143
PS: Do you believe we will finally MEET up IN COMING DAY(S)?
Dear Daliolite,
Thank you for your input and comments. Indeed, the present distance is a huge issue straining the relationship. It went from a lucrative final "6 mth career contract" (in a VERY remote area) to stretching out for almost a year now. It is now at a point, where that will be finalized/resolved.
That was a major issue and a concern as you mention. We are both heading towards early retirement (we are in same industry, different positions, different companies but my work contract over now).... However, I do NOT feel he can retire completely now (as he originally had hoped) as he is invigorated by the challenge this remote job gave him. Once this job wrapped, with great communication, support and compromise, I am confident he will be able to find a better balance. I am firm believer in love can overcome any obstacle and if you see it, want it and work at it, anything is possible. Together in life and in business, we are a strong team.
Regards,
Alepou143
Thank you Astra for the blessing. Tenacious is my middle name!!
Dear AstraAngel,
Thank you very much for taking the time to provide your thoughts. Your input is greatly appreciated. I tend to agree with your reading but needed clarity in regards to the hanged man and lovers reversed.
I have always felt committed to this relationship as you indicate, despite the hard times experienced in the past 8 mths (first 8 months were "heavenly" to say the least). Indeed, there is a distance issue .... and a "triangle" issue still pending but am hopeful they will both be resolved VERY soon. I have come through some dark patches and feel renewed now, with the relationship ready to head towards the next step.
I feel in my heart and on some odd subconscious level that this man is the one I am meant to be with. We have both shared private, personal details with one another that NO ONE else knows. I have also been married prior and in several long term relationships so this is not a "crush" or "fling". The major storm/hardships have passed and it did not wipe out my faith in this union/man.
You are correct in pointing out...."who will be the boss" and we often laugh about this. It's a back and forth position. We are both strong characters (I, Leo and he, Sag)
I must admit that I do believe a decision/conversation is coming that will help us to more forward towards stable home and life (Judgement).
Are you able to tell me if you see us "meeting" IN PERSON this week? Thought I'd ask as I do not like to repeat my own Tarot reading in short time frames. I am waiting on his travel plan based on work obligation and potential meeting/deal.
Thank you again for your time and thoughts. Wishing you the very best. Alepou143
Anyone available to interpret Tarot spread done for myself? I think I'm at a point in the very near future where a decision will be made. I feel it.
Used the 22 major arcana cards, drew 5 cards and placed in The Lovers tree spread (see below). Can someone give me their opinion on this? My question was whether BW was the one man for me and if we would marry. I must tell you ALL that we seem to be so connected by multiple "signs" in the past 2 wks. We are 3000 miles apart at present due to professional obligations but expect to be together soon (coming week or two).
Position 1 (me) - VIII - Strength card
Position 2 (past) - XII - hanged man Reversed
Position 3 (present) - XIX - Sun Reversed
Position 4 (future) - XX - Judgement
Position 5 (underlying influence) VI - Lovers Reversed
Any guidance would be appreciated. Thank you in advance for your spiritual input.
From Leo Alepou143
Trying to append a photo of spread without success. Sorry.
I recently did a 5 card spread of The Lovers Tarot using the 22 major arcana cards and would like a second opinion of the reading. My question was: is this man, BW, the one and will I marry him?
Position 1 (me) - VIII - Strength card
Position 2 (past) - XII - hanged man Reversed
Position 3 (present) - XIX - Sun Reversed
Position 4 (future) - XX - Judgement
Position 5 (underlying influence) VI - Lovers Reversed
Any insight from experienced tarot reader would really be appreciated. If you require any additional info, pls let me know. many thanks in advance! I hope I have put this in the proper category. (Am new to the site).