Thank you for your reading The Captain!! Sad!
Hi Jenna, To begin noone on here has the right to judge you. Mistakes happen. Sometimes in our search for self, we make decisions that seem right action at the time. The feel good moments. In time we realize they may not have been the best decisions. For those times we must LEARN to forgive ourselves. By beginning that process, we learn to forgive the actions of others who are important to us. Forgive, truly forgive yourself and your husband and you will understand that this new baby is a result of both of your decisions, but not the cause. He/she is.. and will always be. Once you have learned to accept yourself in it's role, you'll learn to accept him/her, and yes you'll learn to love her/him because it is a prt of your husband. If you love him like you say you do, you'll love that part of him too.
For now work on your relationship with you. Then work on your relationship with your hubby. Really focus on your relationship and learn the utmost in forgiveness and love. I have a feeling, everything will work out for the greater. Stand strong by his side. If he loves you he will stand strong by yours and you guys will make it. REMEMBER!! No blame! No angry words or hostilities, no finger pointing. Accept and heal. Gods peace, love and light over your life and that of your family!
Hey Ladies, Just dropping in to wish you lovely ladies a really wonderful season, filled with all your favorite thangs!! I see you are still growing and stronger than ever. God Bless and much love. Have a wonderful season and if I don't see you before then, a truly blessed 2011!!
Just caught the leer broom in for a quick minute, for a quick drink at the pond. I'm supposed to be fasting for the last week, hence the reason I am scarce here. Gave up a few things one of them less use of the internet. I'll be back on soon. Been getting all your wonderful vibes so I know I am not alone. will catch up when I return.
Hey Ice, glad that you and the fam are safe. God favors!!
Will remember to say a prayer for all you ladies in the AM
Heading out to zzz land
Good night and loves blessings
Happy Sunday Hans
I finally got to read your answer and I did not understand this last part.
What does it mean?
Thus also where men are concerned, wild force should not be combated directly; instead, its roots should be eradicated.
Just stumbled on your post. do I have any guides. Whenever you get around to it, I'd appreciate.
Love and light
Good Evening Ladies, New Sistas, Ice sweetie, and Sista Queens,
Quickly dropping in to say "WHAZZUP!!" I've gotten all the love and well wishes you've been sending. It is wonderful, even if I've been running without time to slip by the pond for a quick swig.
All is well in my closet.
I started running again and boy am I sore. Who knew Winter could lay tricks? Uh huh!! I didn't know I had nooks and cranies that needed tightening up. but I'm finding all of them. There's hope though!! Just need a very good looking personal trainer who'll convince me to continue to work out donned in a tight "wife beater and some tight spandex pants....lol.
Ice!!! I gave up the zumba..mama. My instructor had the funniest butt and I couldn't concentrate.I am not gay i the least, It was just too distracting.. I don't even think she could either..we were all over the place...just NO RHYTHM and I really could not break a sweat.,,hmmmmmmm, NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well I've started my "fast". Got 19 more days to go and I was supposed to give up a few things,, like ummm...here!! But how can I get away from you ladies? So I gave up sex. lolololololol.
Anyways I am pooped and running to bed to place my male order in for a good looking, best for me SM. HELP!!!!!!
Good night Ladies
Good Morning Quenkath,
greetings from the sunny and warmer North East. I think I see SPRIIIIIIINNNNNNNNNNNGGGG!! WOOHOO!! and I cannot wait.
I think everyone else is still counting sheep, and Ice may be working on beating up the young gym person who loves putting her muscles through torture. Hey ICE!!! :-)))).
Heading out and just wanted to tell you that you are not alone.....we'll all be around the pond in a minute. Make sure the coffeee is HOT!!!....
Blessings of the day to you Xo