Thank you a lot !
i am getting back to you regarding the guy i like.
he was so euphoric last night when he saw me after a long time. he through his arms in the air and was so happy while talked at me metaphorically. he said something beautiful but i tend not to take it at heart because i am hurt. I didn't say any thing in return. i am upset of his ups and downs but i like him a lot. I feel like he wants to communicate with me but he finds me difficult. and i do him too. do you see us together in the future or i should move on?
I am sure that this was the challenge given from God for you to overpass and so to not let it put you down again. never more! you are for a reason in this life--live it and fulfill it!
there should not be any past or tomorrow. we live in that moment and we should feel every bit of it.
it sound egoistic for us to think about our sufferings and to want more and better. we are not the first and not the last to suffer and so we should give the good sample to the world, by not seeing the suffer, but the joy and love.
we have more than we see -- it depends on us if we are happy or said. the circumstances are not defining our feelings. money doesn't make us happy. money facilitates our every day being but is not what can brake us, if we don"t have it. CHANGE PERSPECTIVE. laugh and give love to see that you have it. I am sure you do. just abandon the beast of desperation any time it comes to you. through it way and laugh at it! it there to confuse you
I am happy you got so much support from this forum!
Hans, thank you again for your answer at page 21.
i agree with your insight but I am disappointed to see that " This guy is defending his space against all expectations towards him" as you foresaw. the guy was hitting on me at first until I faced him with the condition that he has to be free of girlfriends if he wanted to date me (knowing that he had a girlfriend)...at first he was kinda of smiley and confused and answered "babe" over the phone and than got upset at me..., after some other confusing moves, once showing me "the not interested" and than the "one in love" until it became a still- wordless war and retreat ...he is still making efforts to pull my attention, and no more i can understand him. he seems sometimes angry in his face
I have been guided by dreams... so amazingly every thing happened with him, I first saw it in my dreams. the last dream I saw a month ago was that while I was walking away, unexpectedly he throw his arm on my shoulders as embracing me and we both kept walking away into the city or out... I didn't see him, i only new that was him and felt his very heavy arm... later I did the same, I through my arm around his belly.. his heavy arm bended my head slightly on his chest..
I don't want to keep my hopes high for him but this dream is uncounsciously letting me waiting for something to happend.
Can you see more on that ??? thanks a million!
thank you as allways for your time and effort.
you already told me that you don't see any change for me in the future page 13-14.
In fact i want to add some more info on me. I am looking to end my marriage for a while and see for a better life. my secret story is that I am in a platonic love with someone for about a year and i know the circumstances are against us. I think the guy is attracted to me too, and he is not letting go more than i do, but he seems to be afraid to change any think since it is not easy. he has a girlfriend. I wonder if you see any thing more on my future.
I don't have much hope but like to have a real talk with this guy. i wish he could be more clear what he wants from me.
I thank you for taking your time and energy in helping all of us.
I am in a moment in life that i think my marriage is not perfect, even no close to good. lots of fights and arguments. I see it unhealthy for my son and for my mental health. I want to change it, but find it hard because my husband loves me a lot and he would get very hurt of the change. I am so tired of lots of differences we have and arguments which exhaust me to the point of faking it and giving up. but i want a change.
do you see any change for me in the future?
thank yo a lot
first I apologies to drgagannagi breaking in this thread with my concern.
I have been reading cris's posts and i am strongly tempted to ask cris advice on a concerning issue I am living at the moment.
so, my sister heard in her dream that her son is going to die at the age of 23. at the moment the boy is 18. we are scared to death about this, Any thought??? how seriously should we take this dream and how can we prevent anything from happening???
what can we do about this, or just ignore it?!!
thank you a lot
i tried understanding your answer(both my question and your response are on page 6). my question still is that can we change the predicted message by this dream??? if we stay closer to this boy's life and or do something that might help him in not doing the wrong things...
can this dream be broken if we act ??? or we just hope for not happening. How much of chance we have that the dream doesn't come true.
the boy at this point is excellent in all aspects and nothing wrong looks in his life.
thank you a lot again!