My DOB is: Nov 18, 1975
His DOB is: April 15, 1976
In general, would an aries man get into a lot of detailed discussion about a future with someone if they were only looking to have some fun? We've talked about alot of stuff, like having our kids on the same weekends so we can spend time together, to me running the finances cause he's horrible at it, buying a new couch and bed big enough for both of us, just a bunch of stuff like that. He says he loves me and can't wait to spend his life with me, but as I've already posted on here, he is currently getting out of a long relationship with the mother of his 2 children. I've already been told how horrible I am and that karma will get me, so please no nasty comments, I am completely aware of the situation I am in. Haven't really heard from him much in the past couple of weeks since he told her he was moving out. She agreed they would not be together if it weren't for the kids and all she was concerned about was how to pay the bills. All he said to me was that he still loved me and needed to figure his life out and to bare with him for now please. Two weeks seems like an eternity to me, especially since I have no idea what's going on, but in reality for him it's probablly not. I'm trying to just have faith and believe in what he has been telling me but the more time passes the more anxious I get. I just have a hard time beleiving that he would bother saying so many things about a future with me and telling me he loved me if it was all just to have a summer fling. He could easily pick up any chick he wanted if all he wanted was sex. I'm thinking about texting him but don't want to push him any farther away. He works for a moving company too and since we have 2 universities in town which both start in a couple of weeks, he's probablly extremely busy as he's a workaholic anyway. He's always been very straighforward with me so I have no reason to doubt him other than the situation lends itself to that I guess. We have alot of mutual friends so I do know his situation at home is not good, he did not feed me bullshit on that. He's always asked for me not to give up on him and a few weeks ago he thought I was tired of waiting so I really scared him. I'm trying not to give up now but I don't want him to give up on me either. Not sure what my next move should be...leave him be for a couple of more weeks or see how he's doing? I'm just looking for some honest input on typical aries behaviour in this kind of situation, not an attack on me or him thanks
Thank you Shuabby for your response! This has been my feeling about he situation as well, that he is sad over the dividing of his family, not leaving her per say, and just needs time to adjust. They were never married, but have 2 children and a house together so alot to deal with. This all came to a head 2 weeks ago and I have not seen him since, only received a few txts from him, the last one being on Monday after I txtd him to say "I only want to hear I love you and I miss you too and he answered I miss you too. I just answered
Thank you and I love you``and he just sent me a :) back. I may run into him out over the weekend as he gets paid today and may be out with his buddies and we'll see how things go. I'm trying not to txt him but it's getting really hard. I think by tomorrow night I may just say hi how r things?... Do you think this is a good idea? Im going crazy not knowing anything that is happening. We do have some mutual friends so I they may get wind of something and start talking this weekend too so I
m going to keep my ears open and my mouth shut and see what is said. I really hope Im not wasting my time...I`ve never felt this way before and I was married for 8 years
So I'm a Scorpio girl (Nov 18, 1975) who's crazy about an Aries man (April 8. 1980). Just wondering if anyone has had any experiences with this kind of relationship, good or bad. The problem is he is not exactly single. We've kinda been seeing each other all summer while he tries to figure out how to get out of the loveless relationship he's been in for years. They met at 19, she got pregnant and they been together ever since, now 32. He's asked her to marry him and she wears his ring but will not get married. He sleeps on the couch and is there to pay the bills and has been very unhappy for years. We met through mutual friends last fall and the attraction was immediate. I found out he had a gf and didn't pursue it. We came into contact again in April and this time it was harder to ignore. We started talking at first and I told him all about my unhappy marriage that I was in for 8 years and how I finally left. Then we started hanging out and things just progressed from there. We both knew all along that it was wrong so I don't need any judgements on that, I beat myself up enough for it. We do have mutual friends who know about his unhappy situation so I do know he's not feeding me a buch of BS, they do not know about us though. I feel like he is my soulmate, like I've known him forever, and he feels the same way. Told me he loved me after only about 6 weeks, and i truly feel that he does and I feel the same way. There is definitely a lot of compromise between us, but we both think it will be worth it. They had a talk a couple of weeks ago and he told her he was moving out. They told their kids and parents a couple of days later. I haven't heard much from him since, only to say that he is still alive and that he loves me and needs to figure his life out and to bear with him for now. I just let him know that I am here if he needs me and am trying to give him his space, which is killing me since I don't have any control over the situation and have no idea what is going on. I do realize our signs are only a small part of a person's personality too, just looking for some input on his behaviour and if/when he might come around again...Thanks!
Looking for some input from all you Aries out there... I'm a Scorpio female (Nov 18, 1975) and I've been seeing an Aries male (April 8, 1980) since May. It's kind of a complicated situation and he's taking some time to himself to figure his life out and has asked me to bear with him for now. He told me he loved me after about 6 weeks and I truly feel that he does. It's the most overwhelming relationship I've ever been in. I feel like I've know him forever and that we will be so happy together. Just wondering if things will fizzle out as quickly as they started or if this could be the real deal... What have your experiences been with this combination? Any insights would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!