Hi sexy, it is hard to met a good man. Maybe just date them for a while, we all know men are very good at the honeymoon period , but that soon wears off, then you see the real person. Have boundaries for yourself, keep your eyes open, watch what he does,e.g does he do what he says he will, go on dates and just mentally take notes.
Don't be in a rush to find love. I know it can be frustrating, because we all want to be with someone, but it has to be the right someone for you.