Wow what a story reading here! It took me time to understand the thread.
@Masccancer you say you´re fine but you really have hope that fate put you and your ex together again. I am sure you still love him and no wonder, cancer-taurus seems like a perfect match, hope though that you´re actually taking a breath and not saying it to restate or convince yourself, which if it is so, i would understand after a break up.
I like the way you broad and still keep some touch with him but star2u was right first when she said you should stop all contact, if only to make him realise you´re not his pet. You know, taurus like pets, somebody who will submit to them. And he wants to know where you are or who´re you dating, maybe he does so he can use it as pretext to talk about it with you and drop some comment about his new acquaintance then he can show off a little more and keep a superior position over you because he can´t take it otherwise. It was you who broke up? so there you go, he must have the last word, it´s taurus rule.
It could be that he keeps you to have that final word or that he´s really afraid of losing you because he cares deeply but what probably happens it´s he doesn´t even know what he wants.
@star2u your ex taurus seems a total player, no the typical one and good to hear you dumped him altogether, guys like that better left alone in their abyss. I don´t know how could you stand it for long.