I don't lie to them.. Its not like I mislead them on purpose for my own gain. I never mention anything about relationships. I'm not shooting for anything soon, its just the other side misinterprets what I say like crazy. The signals I send are not intentional, I just don't have much to talk about other than what happens in my mind.
I'm open with my friends as well sometimes its just I have much to lose by saying something true but harmful. Saying something harmful to a stranger won't have much of an impact, my reasoning is that most likely I won't see them again, in which sometimes isn't the case.
I never had a bullying problem, my parents basically shielded me till 8th grade. Then some random insane growth happened 9th grade and on. I can go with your solution, except I'll take it to the extreme and not open up with just anyone.
I think I've identified the problem. My hobby is to talk to people about my ideas, my thoughts, feelings and hear theirs, that's basically it. Talking is fun. It seems I only can do that with strangers because of the problem I mentioned to captain. I need to get something to do as a replacement hobby so I can talk about that instead. I guess I'll just suppress my real hobby for whoever I think is right. I read quite a bit from this forum and I have an idea which are the right people to open up to. Although I think this solution is good enough I'm still open (haha) for any ideas.