Look within. Did the boyfirned try something new, only to realize he had what he wanted all along? Are you making excuses for him? Build your own personal stength. Don't rely on "perfect couple" status. I'll bet when he sees how strong, self assured you are, he will be back (if you still want him in your life).

Gemini man, Sagittarius woman - worked for me for about ten years (Sag woman). We were both independent, affectionate, sports minded... His age was much younger, but responsible and lots of fun. Our relationship ended because of our age difference (16 yrs). His friends, teammates, co-workers opinions meant more to him than I knew! They were always trying to "set him up" with younger women. We are still friends. I will always care for him.

When people ask why I have not been "successful" in relationships...I tell them, I have learned something from every relationship, so I don't feel they were unsuccessful. Truly I learn about myself, reactions of others and maintain those lessons. In this life...I get better with time.